Kusankha Antchito Amene Adzachita Bwino M'gulu Lanu Ndizovuta
Mufuna kuyang'ana zizindikiro zosayankhula zomwe zimakuuzani za maganizo, malingaliro, zofuna, ndi kuyang'ana kwa munthuyo. Amalankhula mofuula kusiyana ndi kulankhulana mawu pa nthawi yofunsa mafunso. Kulankhulana kosagwirizana kukuthandizani molimba mtima kufufuza zilembo za wolemba aliyense payekha:
- maluso ofunika kuti agwire ntchito,
- makhalidwe omwe mwadziwona kuti ndi ofunikira kuti mukhale ogwira ntchito, komanso
- chikhalidwe ndi chilengedwe cha gulu lanu.
Izi ndi zitsanzo za kulankhulana mosagwirizana komwe mukufunikira kuti muzimvetsera ndi "kumva." Mukhoza kukhulupirira zomwe mukuwona; zojambula zoyamba.
Zojambula Zoyamba
Mphindi zochepa zoyambirira muzoyankhulana zili zofunika kwambiri moti palibe china chilichonse chofunika. Mukuyang'ana wofunsayo ndikuwona mauthenga osalankhula omwe akulankhulana nawo. Mumapanga zojambula kuchokera kwa munthu amene akutsatidwa naye, kugwiritsa ntchito manja, zovala ndi zipangizo, kugwiritsa ntchito malo, kumvetsera, kuyang'ana maso , ndi nkhope yake.
Ndipo, ndiye mumamvetsera zomwe akunena poyankha mafunso anu.
Ntchito Yogwiritsa Ntchito Nthawi
Kodi wokondedwa wanu akhala mokhazikika koma oongoka, koma osati molimbika, mu mpando wake? Kodi amayenda ndi chitetezo chokhazikika? Ayenera kuti ali ndi chidaliro ndipo amakhala omasuka ndi iyemwini. Kusungulumwa kumayankhula mofuula za ntchito yovuta komanso kudzichepetsa.
Chokhacho chimene chimathandiza munthu kutenga malo oyenera mu chipinda chimakuuzani kuti wopemphayo ali otetezeka mu luso lake. Kukhala wosasamala kumapereka chithunzi cha mphamvu yochepa ndi kusasamala. Khalani tcheru.
Manja
Onani ngati wodwala wanu ali ndi dzanja lolimba, louma, lolimba. Kachiwiri, munthu wodalirika, womasuka amagwirana chanza ngati kugwirizana kosagwirizana. Kugwirana chanza kukuyenera kukutsimikizirani za chikhumbo cha wokondedwa kuti akhale ndi chiyanjano choyambirira. Kugwirana chanza kumasonyeza kudzidalira kwakukulu ndi kudzichepetsa. Kugwirana chanza mwamphamvu kungakuuzeni kuti munthuyo ndi wamwano kwambiri kapena akuyesera kukupangitsani.
Zovala ndi Zida
Ziribe kanthu momwe ntchito yanu ilili yopanda ntchito, wogwira ntchito mwakhama ayenera kuvala suti kumsonkhano wake woyamba. Chovala chomwe chimasankhidwa chimakuuzani momwe mtsikanayo angagwiritsire ntchito nawo ndi kuwonetsedwa ndi makasitomala.
Zida zosankhidwa kaya telegraph ntchito - kapena iwo satero. Chikwama, chokopa cha chikopa, chikopa chabwino, thumba la chikopa ndi nsapato zowala zimakhala zooneka bwino. Amakuuzani kuti wotsogoleredwa akusamalika mokwanira kuti ayambe kupanga chidwi choyamba.
Zodzoladzola, zonunkhira, ndi zodzikongoletsera, zovala bwino, zitha kuwonjezera kuwona kwanu kwazochita.
Zikopa zakuda kapena nsapato zogulitsidwa zimakuuzani kuti munthuyo ndi wosasamala, mofulumira, kapena sakudziwa kuti ali ndi ena. Zosakhala bwino.
Mwinanso, ngati woyesayesa ayesa kuoneka wofufuzidwa ndi katswiri pa zokambirana - ndipo sali-izi ndi zabwino ngati zimapeza. Sankhani zomwe zimagwirira ntchito ku bungwe lanu, ndikusankhira bwino. Zovala ndi zobvala zosankhidwazo ndizo machitidwe amphamvu olankhulana osalankhula. Mvetserani mukamalemba. Kumvetsera, kukhudzana ndi maso, thupi ndi nkhope ndi mauthenga osayankhula omwe angakuuzeni zambiri za ofuna kuti muwagwire ntchito.
Kumvetsera ndi Kuyanjana kwa Diso
Yang'anani khalidwe lomvetsera ndi loyanjana la wophunzira wanu. Ayenera kuchita ngati kuti akugwiritsira ntchito kutsamira patsogolo pa mpando wake kuti atseke pang'ono mtunda pakati pa iyeyo ndi wofunsayo.
Mukufuna kubwereketsa munthu yemwe angathe kulemba zolemba zake pa desiki kuti mutenge zolemba, koma osatenga malo anu ochuluka. Mukufuna wogwira ntchito amene angakhale ndi chidwi choyang'ana maso popanda kuyang'ana kapena kukakamizidwa kumvetsera.
Ngati wofunsayo akamaliza kuyankhulana ndi maso ake akusunthira ponseponse m'chipinda, osakuyang'anirani, izi zikhoza kusonyeza kuti alibe chidaliro - kapena choipa - sakusamala. Kwa nthawi yayitali, kuyanjana kwa maso kumaso kungasonyeze munthu wamwano kwambiri yemwe sasamala za chitonthozo chanu. Ndipo, ngati sakusamala za chitonthozo chanu panthawi ya kuyankhulana, khalidwelo silidzakhala bwino mukamamulemba.
Mvetserani komanso mayankho a wofunsayo ku mafunso anu. Kodi anamva funso lanu? Kodi amayankha mosapita m'mbali ndi kugawana nthano, kapena kuchoka mosavuta pamutu? Wachikulire akukuuzani kuti anakonzekera kuyankhulana ndipo ali ndi nkhani zopambana zomwe angachite. Wotsirizirayo amasonyeza kuti sali wokonzeka, wosasunthika, kapena kuti sakusamala kuti amvere.
Maonekedwe a nkhope ndi Thupi la Thupi
Ralph Waldo Emerson ananena kuti: "Zimene mumachita zimalankhula mokweza kwambiri moti sindingamve zomwe mumanena." Ndipo, palibe chomwe chimayankhulana monga nkhope ndi thupi la ofuna. Mabuku onse adalembedwa kutanthauzira nkhope ndi chinenero cha thupi. Chinsinsi cha kumvetsera kulankhulana kwawo kosagwirizana ndi kaya nkhope zawo ndi thupi lanu zimagwirizana ndi mawu omwe atchulidwa.
Maonekedwe a nkhope omwe sagwirizana ndi mawu omwe atchulidwa angasonyeze kuvulaza kwakukulu kapena kunama - osati makhalidwe abwino kwa wokondedwa. Wosankhidwa amene samayang'ana maso ndikulankhula ndi malo paphewa panu sakhala womasuka ndipo amasonyeza kuti alibe chidaliro. Mukufuna kubwereka wantchito amene nkhope yake ikugwirizana ndi kusunga mawu ake.
Chilankhulo cha thupi chimayankhula mofuula, nawonso. Kodi wokondedwayo adatsamira kumbuyo pa mpando wake ndi miyendo yake idadutsa pamadzulo? Iye ali wotetezeka kwambiri chifukwa cha kuyankhulana. Kodi watenga daisi yanu yonse ndi manja ake ndi zipangizo zake? Iye ndi wokwiya kwambiri.
Kodi amatsamira ndi manja ake atadutsa kumbuyo kwake? Iyi ndi khalidwe loyankhulana mwaukali kwambiri. Musamayembekezere khalidwe losautsa ngati mukumulemba. Ngati wolembayo akuyankhula ndikuyang'ana patali kapena akuwoneka wamanjenje, mwina sakunena zoona. Ngati iye akuyang'ana m'maso mwanu pamene akuwuza nkhani yake, mwina akhoza kupanga.
Ngati amathira cholembera chake nthawi zonse, amadzipangira zokongoletsera pamapeto pa chiganizo chilichonse, akukwapula tsitsi lake maminiti pang'ono, akutumiza mauthenga osiyanasiyana ponena za vuto lake - ndi malo oyankhulana kapena maluso ake ndi luso lake lonse? N'zovuta kunena. Mvetserani ku zomwe sakunena.
Kutsiliza
Kufunsa ndi kulemba anthu omwe angakhale antchito abwino omwe amagwirizana bwino m'bungwe lanu ndizovuta. Kumvetsera kulankhulana kosagwirizana kwa ofuna ofuna kukuthandizani kungakuuzeni zambiri za olemba monga mawu awo, malingaliro awo, ndi zomwe akumana nazo. Nkhani zosayankhulana.