Makhalidwe Othandiza Kuchita Zochita

Mfundo zamakhalidwe ndizozama, zomwe zimakhudza mbali iliyonse ya moyo wathu. Zitsanzo zikuphatikizapo umphumphu, chinsinsi, banja, kukhulupirika, mgwirizano, ndi kukhulupirika.

Atsogoleri akulu amatsindika mfundo zawo ndikugwiritsa ntchito mfundo zawo kutsogolera makhalidwe awo ndi zisankho zawo. Pokhala ndi mfundo zoyenera komanso zosagwirizana, kapena mfundo zoyendetsera, atsogoleli amasonyeza nthawi zonse mu khalidwe lawo ndipo ena amamvetsa komwe akuchokera komanso chifukwa chake.

Mu Utsogoleri Wovuta: Kodi mungatani kuti zinthu zosayembekezeka zizichitika m'mabungwe, James Kouzes ndi Barry Posner akuti: "Kuti mukhale mtsogoleri wodalirika, muyenera kumvetsetsa zikhulupiliro zomwe mumakhulupirira. Muyenera kufotokoza moona mtima zikhulupiliro zanu m'njira zomwe zimakuyimira kuti ndinu ndani. "

Kafukufuku wa wolemba uja adawonetsa kuti atsogoleri omwe ali okhulupilika kwambiri ali omveka pa zikhulupiliro zawo, amalankhulira ena makhalidwe awo, ndipo amatsogolera m'njira zomwe zimagwirizana ndi izi.

Pali njira ziwiri zowunikira:

1. Khalani omveka pa mfundo zanu zofunika kwambiri
2. Kulankhulana ndi makhalidwe anu kwa ena.

Muvuto la Utsogoleri, olemba amapereka zochitika zambiri zomwe mtsogoleri angakhoze kuchita kuti athandize pa sitepe # 1.

Owerenga amauzidwa kuti alembe msonkho kwa iwo okha, lembani maphunziro kuchokera kwa atsogoleri omwe amawakonda, ndipo alembe utsogoleri wa utsogoleri.

Mu ntchito yathu yophunzitsira akuluakulu , timagwiritsanso ntchito "khalidwe labwino" pofuna kutanthauzira zoyenera (ndikuthokoza mnzanga Mary Hershey pa ntchitoyi).

Cholingacho ndikutengera zoyenera zapamwamba zisanu ndi ziwiri pa chiwerengero chanu ndi # 1 kukhala chofunikira kwambiri.

Malangizo:

1. Yambani pochotsa zinthu zomwe sizofunikira kwa inu.
2. Kenaka yendetsani mndandanda kachiwiri, ndikuzungulira zinthu zambiri zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri kwa inu.
3. Zotsala za mndandandawo zidzakhala zofunika kwambiri koma osati zofunika kwambiri .

1. Onaninso zinthu zofunika kwambiri. Ganizirani ngati pali phindu lomwe liri lofunika kwambiri kwa inu ndipo simunalembedwe; onjezani. Ndiye kuchokera ku gulu lino, sankhani 7 zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri .
2. Kenaka chitani chiwerengero cha zinthu 7 zofunika kwambiri. Nambala imodzi ndi mtengo wofunikira kwambiri.

1.	Kupambana	13.	Mpikisano	25.	Kulingana
2.	Kupita patsogolo	14.	Kugwirizana	26.	Ulemu
3.	Zosangalatsa	15.	Ugwirizano	27.	Chisangalalo
4.	Zojambula	16.	Dziko	28.	Maluso
5.	Kuteteza	17.	Chilengedwe	29.	Chilungamo
6.	Kukhala Wolemekezeka	18.	Chidwi	30.	Kutchuka
7.	Kukongola	19.	Kusintha	31.	Banja
8.	Chovuta	20.	Demokarase	32.	Ndalama Zopindulitsa
9.	Sintha	21.	Kusiyanasiyana	33.	Ufulu
10.	Kulankhulana	22.	Udindo Wachilengedwe	34.	Ubwenzi
11.	Anthu	23.	Mphamvu	35.	Sangalalani
12.	Mpikisano	24.	Kuchita bwino	36.	Thanzi

37.	Kuthandiza Ena	55.	Masewera	73.	Udindo / Kuyankha
38.	Kuthandiza Society	56.	Ntchito Yopindulitsa	74.	Chitetezo
39.	Kuona Mtima	57.	Chifundo	75.	Kudzizindikira
40.	Manyala	58.	Chilengedwe	76.	Kudzilemekeza
41.	Kudziimira	59.	Kutseguka	77.	Kudzidzimvera
42.	Kusokoneza	60.	Dongosolo	78.	Serenity
43.	Zosintha	61.	Mafotokozedwe Anu	79.	Kusinkhasinkha
44.	Chiyanjano	62.	Zosangalatsa	80.	Zauzimu
45.	Kukhulupirika	63.	Mphamvu	81.	Kukhazikika
46.	Malingaliro	64.	Kutchuka	82.	Chikhalidwe
47.	Kuyanjana	65	Zachinsinsi	83.	Chikhalidwe
48.	Chidziwitso	66	Kukonzekera	84.	Kugwirizana
49.	Utsogoleri	67	Makhalidwe	85.	Choonadi
50.	Kuphunzira	68	Kuzindikiridwa	86.	Zosiyanasiyana
51.	Kusangalala	69	Ubale	87.	Chuma
52.	Malo	70	Chipembedzo	88.	Nzeru
53.	Chikondi	71	Mbiri	89.	Ntchito / Moyo Wosamalidwa
54.	Kukhulupirika	72	Ulemu

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Mukakhala ndi mfundo zisanu ndi ziwiri zapamwamba, ganizirani kuyankha mafunso otsatirawa kuti mudziwe momwe zikhalidwe zanu zikuyimira mu utsogoleri wanu:

1. Kodi antchito anu amadziwa zamtengo wapatali? Ngati ayi, agawana nawo ndikuwaitanira kuti azigawana nawo.
2. Kodi mfundo izi zikuwonetsedwa mu khalidwe lanu tsiku ndi tsiku? Kodi mukutsatira mfundo zanu, kapena malo anu?