Simungalandire ndalama zothandizira nyumba, komanso, muzochitika zoterozo, kodi mungapeze chakudya chokwanira (mudzakhalabe ndi chakudya chamadzulo, mu holo ya chow).
Pamene ndinali kamnyamata kakang'ono, zosankhazo sizinali zophweka. Kalelo, kumakhala kumalo osungira nyumba kumatanthauza kuti (malingana ndi maziko ndi ofesi ya nthambi), muyenera kugawana chipinda chanu (za kukula kwa chipinda chachikulu m'nyumba ya banja), limodzi ndi awiri, kapena awiri . Nthawi zina chipinda chogona chinali "chipinda chamagulu" chomwe chinali pansi pa holo. Amuna ambiri aang'ono adaganiza zogulitsa galimoto zatsopano kuti azikhala pansi pambali pawo. Onjezerani izi ku mwambo wakale wa sergeants oyambirira ndi ma CRO ena (ndi akuluakulu apolisi), akulowetsa m'chipindamo mukamayesa kuti ayang'ane, atsimikiziranso kuti mnyamata wina wachinyamata yemwe anali msilikali kuti ndi malo oti akhale, ngakhale ngati akanayenera kulipira.
Lero ndi nkhani yosiyana. Zina kupatula maphunziro othandizira (monga maphunziro oyambirira ndi maphunziro a ntchito), ndi malo operekera malo, monga Iraq ndi Afghanistan (komwe simukuloledwa kuchokapo), ntchito zonse (kupatulapo Marine Corps) akuyesera Kupatsa mamembala onse omwe amalowa nawo chipinda chawo (Dziwani: Cholinga cha Marine Corps ndichopatsa Marines onse omwe akukhala nawo chipinda chokhala ndi munthu mmodzi yekha, ndi NCO onse chipinda chawo).
Ntchitoyi ikuchita bwino kwambiri, komanso. Masiku ano, akuluakulu onse a Air Force adafuna kuti azikhala ndi chipinda chimodzi pamsinga zambiri, ndipo Asilikaliwo amangokhala ndi Mtsinje. Mphepete mwa Navy ikhoza kukhala ndi chipinda chimodzi chokha cha achinyamata omwe adatumizidwa ku ntchito yamtunda, ndipo akugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti apereke zipinda kuti apange sitima (pamene sitimayo ili pachitoko).
Iwo sali kwenikweni apobe, koma iwo akugwira ntchito mwakhama pa izo. Maziko ambiri (mu nthambi zonse) akusandutsa zipinda zamakono zamakono, zomwe zimaphatikizapo zipinda ziwiri kapena zinayi (chipinda chimodzi chotumikira ku chipinda chilichonse chogona ndi kusamba kwapadera), ndi chipinda chokhalamo ndi khitchini (pamene ndinali kamnyamata kakang'ono mu dorm, panalibe njira yomwe inu munaloledwa kuphika kumeneko, ndipo chipinda chokhalamo chinali "lalikulu" chamagulu omwe aliyense amakhala pansi). Pamene kuyendera kukuchitikabe, masiku ano amakhala ocheperapo, ndipo mochuluka kuposa ayi, amadziwitsidwa pasadakhale, ndipo sakhala pafupi "magalasi oyera."
Malo ena amalola anthu omwe amaloledwa kupita kumalo osungira banja, ngati pali nyumba zopanda phindu, atapereka kwa anthu onse omwe amakhala ndi anthu odalira. Mwachitsanzo, mamembala awiri omwe sali pabanja angakhale m'nyumba imodzi yokhala pazipinda.
Mukamapanga udindo wambiri, mukhoza kusankha kuchoka kumalo osungiramo zinthu ndi kusiya-kumagwiritsa ntchito ndalama za boma. Pachifukwa ichi, mutalandira ndalama zothandizira zapamwamba zomwe zili pamwambapa komanso malipiro a mwezi ndi mwezi (komabe simungathe kudyanso kwaulere mu holo ya chow - mudzayenera kulipira chakudya chilichonse chomwe mumadya). Zimasiyanasiyana kuchokera kuntchito-to-service ndi maziko-malinga (malingana ndi malo angati a malo osungirako omwe amakhalapo), koma ambiri, mukhoza kuyembekezera kuchoka pamunsi ndikulipidwa, pamene mupanga kulipira 4 (zaka zoposa 4 za utumiki), kapena E-5.
Pazifukwa zambiri, apolisi akuluakulu amapatsidwa ufulu wokhala ndi ndalama zokhazikika pamagulu a boma. Zina zazing'ono sizikhala ndi malo osungirako akuluakulu amodzi. Pazitsulo zingapo, iwo angafunike kuti azikhala pansi. Kawirikawiri, pakhomo limodzi la apolisi ndi lokongola kwambiri (nthawizina amakhala ngati zipinda zing'onozing'ono), ndipo maofesi samafunika kukhala ndi wina wokhala naye.
Chinthu chimodzi chovuta kwambiri kukhalapo pa malo osungirako ndi chakuti simukuloledwa kuti mukhale ndi alendo apakati pa usiku (makamaka abambo), komanso "kugwirizana" kumaloledwa. Kotero, ngati inu mwakhala mukugwirizana kwambiri ndi "zina zofunikira," kukhala kutaliko kungakhale kusankha kopambana, kaya mukuyenera kulipira izo mu thumba lanu, kapena ngati ankhondo akufuna kukatenga tab.
Ngati membala mmodzi wololedwa kukhala ndi moyo-amakhala pamalipiro a boma, amasunga ulamulirowo, ngakhale atapita kumalo omenyana, monga Iraq kapena Afghanistan.
Komabe, bungwe la Servicemember la Civil Relief Act limapatsa wothandizira usilikali kugula, popanda chilango, ngati atumizira masiku 90 kapena kuposa. Amuna ambiri osakwatira amathetsa mabungwe awo, amaika katundu wawo pamalo osungiramo katundu, ndipo amakolola ndalama zawo pothandizira (izi ndizoletsedwa). Zopweteka ndikuti mutha kuyendayenda ndikupeza malo ena obwereka mutabwerera kuchoka.