Zomwe Zimapangitsa Oimba Asamapite Kuyenera Kupewa
Kotero konsiti yanu imatulutsidwa ndipo gulu lanu likupita ku malo, okonzeka kusewera kwambiri. Palibe china chodandaula nacho, chabwino? Osati kwenikweni.
Mukuwona, pamene mukudodometsa gulu kuchokera pa siteji ndilofunika kwambiri pa gig iliyonse, antics wanu osagwira ntchito angatanthauze kuti simudzaitanidwanso kubwerera, ngakhale ziri zozizwitsa bwanji. Kupanga zolakwika kumayenda musanafike ndipo pambuyo pa nthawi yanu yamaseŵera ikhoza kukuthandizani kuthekera kwanu kupeza atsopano mafani, akhoza kuwononga ndemanga zanu - osatchula kupanga malo ena ndi othandizira sakufunanso kugwira ntchito nanu kachiwiri.
Ndiye mungatani kuti muteteze nkhanza zonsezi ndikuwonetsetsa kuti masewerowa sali oletsedwa? Nthawi yotsatira yomwe gulu lanu likusewera, pewani makhalidwe awa.
01 Musati Muwonetse Mwatsatanetsatane
Osati mwaufulu kuti muganizire kuti mukuganiza kuti kulowetsa mofulumira kwambiri kapena kuti simukufunikira nthawi yonseyi kuti muthe kuyimba . Mukapanda kufika nthawi, palibe wina amene angachite ntchito zawo. Komanso, zikutanthawuza kuti wolimbikitsayo ndi malo angakhale akulipira anthu kuti ayime pozungulira ndikuchita chilichonse pamene akudikirira kufika kwanu mochedwa - chinachake chomwe sichikukondani kwa iwo. Mukafika mochedwa, mumatumiza ntchito yonse kuopseza ndikupanga nthawi yoyenera yokonzekera kuti muwonetsetse bwino maola angapo m'malo mwake - ndipo izi zingakhudze momwe mumakhalira.
Ngati muchedwa kuchedwa, dinani ndipo musiyeni munthu adziwe mwamsanga momwe mungathere. Ngati simukukonzekera kuti muwonetse nthawi, konzekerani nthawi yotsatira, kotero musasokoneze ntchito ya wina aliyense.
02 Musagwiritse Nkhanza Mndandanda Wa Mndandanda
Ngati chinachake chikuchitika patsiku lomaliza ngati wolemba nkhani kapena abwana akufuna kutuluka ndi kukuwonani inu kapena agogo anu atapita ku tawuni kukadabwa ndi kukuwonani kuti mumasewera, khalani ndi mawu ndi wothandizira kapena malo. Iwo amatha kukhala osinthasintha pa zifukwa zomveka - samangosewera mwamuna / mkazi wamkulu ndi matikiti awo ndikuyembekeza kupambana anzanu omwe mumawafuna (anthu omwe amavala mawonetsero).
03 Musamamwe Zakudya Zonse
Ichi ndi chinthu - ngati mukufuna kukhala woimba, msonkhano ndi ntchito yanu. Mukamapanga mtendere ndi zimenezo, ndibwino. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti simungathe kumwa zakumwa musanafike pamsewu, koma zikutanthawuza kuti muyenera kumwa mowa wanu musanayambe kugwira bwino ntchito yanu kuti muteteze malo anu onse mpaka momwe mukufunira perekani ntchito yabwino. Musakhululukire za izo - ngati mukumwa moledzeretsa onse, kugunda pa sitepe ndikuchita zonse zopenga, omvera angakukondeni. Chimene iwo sangachite, komabe, ndikusankha kuti awonenso kachiwiri kuti agule tikiti kuwonetsero wanu wotsatira. Chimene iwo akufuna kuti inu muchite ndi kusewera nyimbo zomwe amakonda.
Kuwonjezera pa kutulutsa zinyalala, ndikupangitsanso kuti wolimbikitsayo asafune kukulemberani, ndipo mwinamwake mukudzichititsa manyazi pamaso pa mafani, abambo ndi ailesi, kuledzera kungakhale ndi zotsatira zina. Pamene zakumwa zimapitirirabe kuyenda ndi zinthu zimapanga crazier, mukhoza kuchita zinthu ngati kumenyana ndi munthu womveka bwino, kusokoneza zinthu zakutchire ndi zinthu zina zamagulu ndi zojambula zokha zomwe zingapangitse nkhani zabwino koma zopanda zochepa kuti apange malo kapena othandizira akufuna kuti azigwira ntchito nanu kachiwiri. Sungani izo kwa zotsatirazi.
04 Musamangogwedezeka (kapena kumangogonjetsa) Mwalandiridwa
Ndondomekoyi imaponyedwa pamwala pamalo aliwonse, ndipo pakhoza kukhala chipinda china. Njira yabwino yothetsera vutoli, makamaka ngati muli mutu wa mutu, ndikufunsani musanayambe kusewera ndendende pamene mukufunika kuti muchite. Mwanjira imeneyo palibe chisokonezo.
Zomwezo, ngati mukuyembekezeredwa kusewera kwa nthawi yambiri, yesetsani kuti muyandikire kwambiri momwe mungathere kutalika kwake. Ngati simungathe kuzikwaniritsa, kambiranani izi pasadakhale. Ngati simukukhudzidwa ndi kukula kwa omvera kapena china chirichonse ponena zawonetsero, muyenera kuthana ndi malowa ndi othandizira ndi malo - mwa kuyankhula kwina, musagwiritse ntchito pochoka pa siteji maminiti asanu ndi atatu muyiyi yanu chifukwa mukuganiza kuti mukuyenerera bwino.