Pali zina zomwe mungachite ngati mukumva ngati bwana wanu sakukukondani. Werengani pansipa kuti mudziwe njira zowonjezera ubale wanu ndi abwana anu, ndi kukhala ndi nthawi yosangalatsa, nthawi yopindulitsa kuntchito.
Funsani Pafupi
Chinthu choyamba kuganizira ndi ngati ndiwe amene ali ndi vuto ndi bwana. Kodi pali anzake ena omwe amabwera kwa bwana wanu ndikukhala ndi maubwenzi abwino? Kodi pali njira yosiyana yomwe iwo akutenga kapena chilichonse chimene mungaphunzire kuchokera ku ntchito yawo? Yesani ndi kupeza uphungu kwa anthu okuzungulirani.
Dziyang'ane Nokha
Taganizirani, kodi n'zotheka kuti mukupewa kuyanjana ndi abwana anu kapena kutulutsa maganizo oipa mwadzidzidzi chifukwa cha malingaliro anu pa momwe akukuwonerani? Ndi zachilengedwe kuti ife tizichita zinthu mozizira kwambiri kwa anthu omwe timaganiza kuti sangatikondere ndipo kenako iwo angatichite mozizira kwambiri. Yesani kuswa pulogalamuyi mwa kupeza mwayi wothandizira bwana wanu ndikuwonetsa ulemu ndi kuyamikira mwa njira zing'onozing'ono.
Sungani Zochita Zanu
Ngati mukuganiza kuti bwana wanu sakukondani chifukwa cha ntchito, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kusintha kusintha.
Onetsetsani kuti mumusintha nthawi zonse pazochita zanu ndi zomwe mwachita, kotero akudziwa zopereka zanu. Kambiranani momveka bwino za malo omwe angathe kusintha ndikukhazikitsa ndondomeko yothetsera nkhaniyi.
Mwinanso mungafunse kufufuza kawirikawiri kawirikawiri mpaka inu ndi bwana wanu mukumva kuti ntchito yanu yayamba bwino.
Olemba ntchito ambiri adzazindikira kuti mukuyambanso kukhala antchito amphamvu.
Taganizirani Kusiya
Nthawi zina pamakhala kusasakanikirana, kapena bwana wanu ndi wobvuta kapena, moyipa, wotsutsa. Pamene kuyesa kukonza ubale wanu sikungatheke, ndiye kungakhale nthawi yokambirana ntchito zina mu dipatimenti ina kapena ndi abwana ena. Pankhaniyi, samalani kuti musamachite chilichonse chomwe chingachititse kuti munthu asawombere mosavuta.
Sungani Ubale Wabwino
Komanso, dziwani kuti mungafunike kutchulidwa nthawi ina m'tsogolomu kapena amene mukufuna kukhala bwana angayang'ane chinsinsi ndikufika kwa bwana wanu. Choncho pitirizani kugwira ntchito mwakhama ndikusunga miyezo yapamwamba pamene mukufufuza zosankha.
Ngati mwasankha kuchoka, onetsetsani kuti mukhale odziwa ntchito komanso okhutira mu kalata yanu yodzipatulira ntchito.
Komanso, pa ntchito za ntchito ndi zokambirana , musamangoganizira zovuta za ntchito yanu ndi abwana anu. Ngati mukudandaula za abwana akale, wofunsayo angakhale ndi bwana ndikuganiza kuti mukuvutika kugwira nawo ntchito.
Zomwe Tiyenera Kuchita Ngati Tikumana ndi Ntchito Kusankhana
Nthawi zina, bwana angakupatseni njira inayake yopanda chilungamo, ngakhale zoletsedwa, zifukwa.
Pankhaniyi, mungaganize kuti mukuchitapo kanthu.
Kusankhidwa kwa ntchito kapena malo ogwira ntchito kumapezeka pamene mukusankhidwa chifukwa cha mtundu, mtundu, chipembedzo, kugonana, kapena dziko lanu. Kusankhana kwa mtundu uwu sikuletsedwa, ndipo lamuloli likutsatiridwa ndi Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti pali mitundu yambiri ya kusankhana kumalo komwe sikugwira ntchito ndi Komiti.
Ngati mukuona kuti mukusankhidwa, mungathe kudandaula ndi Komiti ya Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. N'kosaloleka kuti abwana akuchitireni nkhanza mutatha kudandaula. Komabe, kumbukirani kuti ichi ndi sitepe yaikulu. Mungathe kulankhulana ndi Dipatimenti Yanu Yothandiza Anthu Musanayambe kudandaula, kuti mupeze uphungu.