Ngati muli m'dera la makolo achimuna, kusunga malingaliro awa kungakuthandizeni kukhalabe osangalala pa umoyo wanu, thanzi lanu, ndi moyo wapadera womwe inu ndi mwana wanu mumagawana nawo.
Dulani Mzere Wothandizira Pakati Panu
Makolo olera okha ana ogwirizana kuti azikhala pamalo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ambiri amadzimva kuti "amachoka" ndipo amafunitsitsa kuti amve chisoni ndi kulimbitsa. Ngati mumadzimva kuti muli nokha, funsani anzanu apamtima, oyandikana nawo, ndi mabungwe ammudzi monga gulu la makolo kapena malo anu opembedza.
Kumbukiraninso kuti anthu omwe amakuganizirani angafune kukhala ndi gawo lalikulu pa moyo wanu koma akhoza kuwopa kuti akuwongolera. Musachite mantha kupitabe ndikupempha thandizo: Simungathe kuchita zofooka, koma chifukwa chokonda mwana wanu. Ngati mnzanu akufuna kupereka ngongole, mwa njira zonse, avomereze. Mudzapeza njira yobweretsera chifundo mwa njira yanu.
Mwinanso mungakonde kulankhulana ndi kholo lina lomwe mumadziwa ndikudalira za kusamalira ana. Iye angakhale womasuka kuti inu mwafunsa, ndipo ndikukondwera kukutengerani inu pa choperekedwa.
Kuphatikizira ana kumagwira ntchitoyi pamlingo waukulu, kumene gulu la makolo omwe amadziwitsana mwaulere akugwira ntchito.
Mungaganize kuyanjana ndi anzanu kapena kuyamba anu.
Dziwani Mapulani Anu Okhazikitsa
Bomba likupita fritz kapena galimoto yanu imasuta fodya pamene mukuyandikira nthawi yomaliza. Wobisalira wanu akutha, banja ladzidzidzi limafika pakati pa usiku, kapena mwadzidzidzi mumabwera ndi chimfine.
Mukhoza kuthana ndi chisokonezo pasanapite nthawi polemba mndandanda wa anthu omwe mungawaitane pakanthawi. Dongosolo lachidziwitso cha pulogalamu mu foni yanu ndi kusunga kopita pamalo oonekera. Perekani makope kwa abanja lanu, abwenzi, anansi anu, ndi osamalira ana anu.
Pangani Thanzi Lanu Kukhala Lofunika Kwambiri
Pakati pa ola limodzi, ntchito ya kumunda, magalimoto, nthawi, ndi chakudya, amayi amasiye angaiwale kukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Kufotokozera izi kungakuthandizeni kukumbukira:
- Fuelani thupi lanu. Pakati pothandizira mwana wanu kuti asankhe cholifulawa pa chimanga cha chimanga, n'zosavuta kuti mukhale wosakanikirana ndi zosankha zanu. Kukonzekera kwa zakudya za Shirk kwa njira zathanzi mukhoza kukonzekera pasanapite nthawi ndikuzizira sabata. Ngati muli ndi mwayi wokhala pafupi ndi msika wa alimi, yambani mwambo wa mlungu ndi mlungu wofufuzira makola ndi mwana wanu: Mudzapeza zipatso zatsopano ndikuwongolera matupi anu.
- Kusintha kwa thupi. Ngati zochitika zolimbitsa thupi zikuwoneka ngati ntchito, mungachite bwino kudutsa mndandanda wazomwe mukuchita, khalani mwana komanso kusewera ndi mwana wanu: Sinthani nyimbo ndi kuvina. Chingwe choponyera. Pulogalamu yolembera paki. Ntchito yanthawi zonse idzakupatsani mphamvu zambiri, maonekedwe abwino, ndi kusangalala kwambiri.
- Pumula. "Ndigona pamene ana anga ali ndi zaka 40." Monga kholo, mwinamwake mwafotokozera mwachidule nzeru zanu za kugona ndi kuseketsa kwowona. Koma akatswiri amavomereza kuti: Kugona ndi bizinesi yaikulu, ndipo kusapeza mokwanira kumayenderana ndi mavuto ambiri. Kukonza nthawi yogona yosalekeza popanda zododometsa kudzakuthandizani inu ndi mwana wanu kuti muzigwira ntchito mwakukhoza kwanu.
Koma ngati mukuvutika ndi mkwiyo kapena kukhumudwa, nkofunika kufotokozera odwala komanso kupeza gulu lothandizira, komwe mungagwiritse ntchito kupweteka, kukhumudwa, kapena nkhawa.
- Sula maganizo anu. Ngati mulibe kholo limodzi mwasankha, mungakhale mukudandaula pa zomwe zapitazo kapena kudandaula zosankha zomwe simungasinthe. M'malo mwake, dzipatseni mphatso yotsekedwa ndipo, pamapeto pake, kumasulidwa. Kuyang'ana nthawi yapamwamba ndi mwana wanu ndikukhala okhudzana ndi ogwirizana bwino kukuthandizani kuti mukhale olimba, ndikukhala ndi moyo, ndikukhala ndi moyo.
- Malo osungirako nthawi zonse "nthawi yanga." Lolani nokha kuti mukhalebe pazing'onong'ono patsiku. Pamene mwana wanu akugona kapena akusewera kusukulu, mwachitsanzo, gwiritsani ntchito ora kuti muitane mnzanu kapena kupiringa ndi kuwerenga mu mpando wokondweretsa m'malo mochita mbale nthawi yopuma. Funsani wachibale wanu kapena mnzanu kuti mukakhale nawo pamene mukupita ku kalasi ya yoga, khofi yopuma kumalo odyera, kapena kuyang'ana m'masitolo mumzinda. Nthawi yeniyeni kwa inu nokha idzakuthandizani kuti musamangomanga ndi kupereka mphotho kwa mwana wanu ndi amayi achimwemwe, owonjezera mphamvu kapena abambo.
Khalani ndi Ena (Frugal) Funso
Ziribe kanthu chomwe chithunzi chanu chachuma, zinthu zochepa (ndi-no-) zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito zingakhale zizolowezi zomwe mumazikonda:
- Ikani pikiniki. Nthawi yachakumbukiro imakumbukika pamene akutumizidwa pa bulange pabwalo-kapena chipinda chanu chogona. Chakudya chomwe chimangokhala "tiyi chipani" kapena pikiski ya pakhomo kumathandizira nthawi yowonjezerapo kusewera ndi ana anu.
- Mabuku ndi kupitirira: Fufuzani laibulale yanu yapafupi. Khalani nthawi zonse ku ofesi ya nthambi yanu, kumene ana ang'ono adzakondwera kukhala mamembala a "khadi-carrying" anthu, ndipo ana okalamba akhoza kudabwa: Kuwonjezera pa bukhu laulere, e-book, music, and movie malo ogulitsa nyumba, malaibulale ambiri amapereka mapulogalamu apadera ndi zochitika kwa ana kupyolera mwa akuluakulu.
- Fufuzani webusaiti yanu. Masewera akunja, zikondwerero, zochitika zapamwamba, tsiku lololedwa ku nyumba yosungirako zojambula: Dziwani zomwe zochitika zolipira kapena zotsika mtengo zikuchitika pafupi ndi iwe.
Pezani Niche Yanu
Kuchokera kumalo osalongosoka kuti apangidwe, pa intaneti mwa munthu, chikhulupiriro chozikidwa kwa anthu omwe si achipembedzo, mapulogalamu osiyanasiyana amagwirizanitsa mabanja a kholo limodzi. Malingana ndi bungwe, ntchito zingaphatikizepo masemina a maphunziro; masewera ndi magulu owerenga; ulendo wamunda; zojambula; mapulogalamu; chakudya chamadzulo; ndi zina zambiri. Makolo Osagwirizana, bungwe la kholo limodzi lopambana kwambiri, liri ndi mitu m'mayiko ambiri, ndi zikwi za mamembala onse ku US ndi Canada.