Ngati ndinu mkazi, ndipo mukufunitsitsa kukwera pamakwerero ndikukwaniritsa zomwe mukufunikira, apa pali mfundo zinayi zofunika kwambiri zomwe zingakuthandizeni kudutsa padenga la galasi .
Phunzirani Kufunsa Kwambiri - Ndipo Kenaka Chitani!
Linda Babcock ndi Sara Laschever, olemba buku la "Women Do Not Ask", akupereka chiphunzitso chakuti mbali imodzi yomwe chiwerengero cha kusagwirizana pakati pa amayi ndi amai chikupitirirabe kuntchito ndi chifukwa amayi samayendetsa malipiro awo monga momwe amuna amachitira . Ichi ndi chinthu chofunikira, akatswiri amati, chifukwa momwe mungagwirizanitsire malipiro anu adzakhala ndi nthawi yaitali momwe tsogolo lanu lidzakhalire ndi mabhonasi adzawerengedwa.
Tara Jackson, katswiri wa zachuma komanso wokamba nkhani pa MadamMoney.com, akuti kukonzekera kutsogolo kwa malipiro angathandize kuthetsa kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi.
"Mukapempha ndalama ndi zolemba za zomwe mwakwanitsa, mukhala ndi mwayi wokambirana ngati akunena kuti ayi kapena akukupatsani zosakwana zomwe adafunsidwa," adatero Jackson. "Komanso, kumbukirani kuti ngati abwana anu sangakupatseni ndalama zambiri, yesetsani kupempha zinthu zina monga nthawi yochuluka, telecommuting, ndi zina zotero"
Musaope Kuyankhula!
Ena angakuuzeni kuti mulole ntchito yanu iyankhule ntchito yanu. Koma kudzichepetsa kungakupwetekeni.
Kafukufuku wina akuti ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri amuna amamva kulimbika mtima kuti alankhule chifukwa cha ntchito yawo, akazi - ngakhale ali ndi malingaliro abwino - amawopa kukanidwa komanso kuthekera kwa kulankhula.
Chimodzi mwazimenezi ndizo makampani olamulidwa ndi amuna omwe ayenera kusintha chikhalidwe chawo. Koma ngati amayi salankhula, kampaniyo sidzafuna kutero. Ndipo ndi amayi omwe ali ndi maudindo akuluakulu kuposa kale lonse, ino ndi nthawi yabwino kuti mupitirize ntchito yonse yabwino yomwe mukuchita ndi liwu lolimba!
Mawu anu adzakuthandizani kuwoneka kwakukulu, jekani malingaliro anu molimba mtima, ndikuthandizani kusintha chikhalidwe cha malo ogwira ntchito kuti mukulimbikitsa kufanana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi.
Simungapambane nokha. Phunzirani Kugawana Ena.
Ngakhale amayi amalonda akuyembekeza kuti akule bwino malonda awo, amakhalanso ochepa kwambiri kusiyana ndi amuna awo omwe amapanga anthu kuti awathandize.
Kafukufuku akunena kuti ndi 9 peresenti ya amayi omwe amalonda amalinganiza kukonzekera antchito ambiri mkati mwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yotsatira. Ndipo omwe akukonzekeretsa kuti asayambe ntchito amanena kuti atenga ntchito yowonjezera.
Kuchokera mu malonda, ngati muli otanganidwa kwambiri pa chilichonse, ndiye kuti mulibe nthawi yopanga njira yowonjezera malonda. Ndipo mumakhalidwe ambiri, kuchita zinthu zonse kumatanthauza kuti simungaganizire zinthu zofunika zomwe zingasunthire patsogolo ntchito yanu - monga kuphunzira luso latsopano kapena kutsogolera ntchito zofunika pantchito.
"Ichi ndi chovulaza kwa mayiyo chifukwa mumatumiza uthenga ndi kuyembekezera kuti ndinu okonzeka kugwira ntchito zonse zomwe mukupanga," Jackson adatero ku Balance. "Msonkhano umakulolani kuti mumasule ntchito yotanganidwa kuti muthe kusonyeza maluso anu enieni omwe angapite patsogolo komanso ndalama zambiri."
Samalani ndi Ntchito Yomwe Mukusankha
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Funso likubweranso, chifukwa chiyani akazi akugwira ntchito zochepa? Lipotili likumaliza kuti mavuto a chikhalidwe amachititsa abambo ndi amai kukhala osiyana siyana komanso ntchito zapamwamba zogwirizana ndi maudindo achikhalidwe. Ndipo maudindo amtunduwu amawongolera udindo wa ana ndi okalamba kwa amayi, zomwe zimawathandiza kuti azifufuza ntchito zochepa zomwe zimakhala zosavuta.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukumbukira ntchito yomwe mumasankha. Kodi muli pantchito chifukwa mukufunadi? Kapena kodi anthu amadziwa ntchito yanu?
Kuonetsetsa kuti momwe maphunziro anu amagwirira ntchito komanso ntchito zanu zingakulimbikitseni kupitiliza kutero ndikugwira ntchito yanu.
Mfundo Yofunika Kwambiri
Ngakhale pali zovuta zina zapantchito zomwe zimachepetsa kugwirizana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, kusintha kwa chikhalidwe kukuchitika. Ndipo nthawi zambiri, mungathe kukankhira kusintha kumeneku mwa kukambirana, kuyankhula, kugawana ndi kumudziwa. Zigawo zinayi zofunika koma zofunikira zidzakuthandizani kupita patsogolo ndikupanga ndalama zambiri.
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