Tengani Machitidwe 7 Othandizani Kulimbana ndi Wolemba Ntchito
Anthu amavala moyenera komanso mopanda ntchito kwa ntchito. Nthawi zina ukhondo umakhala wosayenera. Kugonana kungayambitse vuto la chizunzo . Desi losasangalatsa si chizindikiro cha malingaliro abwino. Makoswe otsekedwa osatulutsidwa amakoka nyerere.
Chilankhulo chosavomerezeka ndi chopanda pake. Kuvumbula kuwonetsetsa kuli mu gulu, phwando, kapena pa gombe. Kusiya mbale zonyansa kwa ena kuti azisamba ndizonyansa.
Kodi mwakumana ndi zitsanzo zilizonsezi? Iwo ndi zitsanzo chabe za machitidwe omwe amafuulira mayankho ogwira ntchito. Masitepe awa adzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi zokambirana zovuta pamene anthu akusowa malingaliro amaluso.
Zomwe Mungachite Poyankha Mavuto Ovuta
- Fufuzani chilolezo kuti mupereke yankho. Ngakhale ngati ndinu bwana wa antchito, yambani kukuuzani kuti muli ndi mayankho omwe mungafune kugawana nawo. Funsani ngati ndi nthawi yabwino kapena ngati wogwira ntchitoyo angasankhe nthawi ndi malo ena. (Mwa kulingalira, ndithudi.)
Kupatsa wogwira ntchito ntchito kuti aziwongolera momwe angayankhire komanso momwe angayankhire angapangitse kusiyana kwake pakulandila kwawo kumvetsa zovuta. - Gwiritsani ntchito zolowera. Musalowerere kuyankha - perekani munthuyo mwayi woti asamalire mayankho ochititsa manyazi. Uzani wogwira ntchitoyo kuti mukuyenera kupereka ndemanga zomwe zimavuta kugawana.
Ngati simukumvetsetsa ndi zomwe mumayankhula, mutha kunena zimenezo, nanunso. Anthu ambiri sakhala omasuka kupereka ndemanga za kavalidwe ka munthu kapena makhalidwe ake, monga momwe munthu akulandirira. Izi ndi zachibadwa komanso anthu. Palibe amene amafuna kuti munthu wina amve chisoni - kapena akumva zowawa.
- Kawirikawiri, mumakhala ndi ndemanga chifukwa antchito ena adandaula kwa inu za chizolowezi, khalidwe, kapena kavalidwe. Musalole kuyesedwa kuti mukulitse malingaliro anu powapanga kuchokera kwa ambiri , kapena kukhululukira udindo wanu kuyankha, ponena kuti antchito ambiri akudandaula. Izi zimapangitsa manyazi kukhala ndi manyazi ndipo amachititsa kuti munthu adziwe bwino.
- Yankho zabwino kwambiri ndi losavuta komanso losavuta. Musagunda kuzungulira chitsamba. Ndikulankhula nanu chifukwa izi ndi nkhani yomwe mukufuna kuthana nayo kuti mugwirizane.
- Muuzeni munthuyo zomwe zingasinthe khalidwe lake kuti likhale ndi maganizo abwino. Uwuzeni wogwira ntchitoyo kuti kusankha kuchita sikudzakhudza ntchito ndi ntchito yawo.
- Pezani mgwirizano pa zomwe munthu angachite kuti asinthe khalidwe lawo. Ikani tsiku loyenera - mawa, nthawi zina. Ikani nthawi yoti muwonenso kupita patsogolo pazochitika zina.
- Tsatirani mwamsanga mutangopereka ndemanga kuti muwone momwe polojekiti ikuyendera - ndipo nthawi zonse pokhapokha palibe kusintha kapena ngati kuwonjezera kwina kumawoneka kofunikira. Chowona kuti vuto liripo limatanthauza kuti kubwerera mmbuyo ndiko kotheka; wogwira ntchitoyo angafunikire kufotokozera kwina kwa mayankho kuti amvetsetse bwino.
Ndiye, zowonjezera zowonjezera ndi mwinamwake, zochitika zowonongeka zimatha zotheka.
Mungathe kukhala ogwira mtima pokambirana zovuta. Kuchita ndi njira izi zidzakuthandizani kumanga chisangalalo chanu kuti mukambirane zovuta. Ndiponsotu, kukambirana kovuta kungathe kusiyana pakati pa kupambana ndi kulephera kwa wogwira ntchito.
Samalani mokwanira kuti mutenge kukambirana kovuta.
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