Kwa mbali zambiri, mafunso otsatirawa angafunsidwe kuti mudziwe ngati ndinu wosewera mpira. Tengani masekondi pang'ono, mukafunsidwa funso lovuta , musanayankhe. Wofunsayo sakuyembekezerani kuti mukhale ndi yankho lokonzeka. Komabe, Motto wa Scout Boy, "Konzekerani" ikugwiranso ntchito pano.
Pano pali mafunso ena oyankhulana ndi ntchito ndi mayankho okhudza kusamvana komwe kumagwira gulu limodzi ndi ogwira nawo ntchito ndi oyang'anira.
Ndiuzeni za nthawi yomwe munkayenera kuchita ndi wogwira naye ntchito yemwe sanachite nawo gawo lake labwino la ntchitoyi. Kodi munachita chiyani ndipo zotsatira zake zinali zotani?
Ndinagwirira ntchito limodzi ndi Ann yemwe nthawi zonse ankakhala ndi gawo la ntchito. Panthawi yovuta, ndikugwira ntchito patsiku lomaliza, ndinazindikira kuti zopereka za Ann pa ntchitoyi zinali zochepa. Ndinasankha kudikira mpaka polojekitiyo ikalankhule naye. Ndine wokondwa kuti ndinachita chifukwa ndinaphunzira kuti adakumana ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri pamoyo wake ndipo adayamikira kuti ndikufunitsitsa kupita kutali, choncho ntchitoyi inamaliza nthawi. Chotsatira chake, kuthekera kwathu kuti tigwire ntchito limodzi pamodzi kunakula kwambiri.
Ndipatseni chitsanzo cha nthawi yomwe mudatenga nthawi yogawana zomwe zinachitikira wogwira ntchito kapena wogwira ntchito ndi zina?
Pa nthawi yanga yatsopano, wogwira nawo ntchito, Dan, anachita ntchito yabwino yochepetsera makasitomala wotsutsa, kuthetsa vuto la kasitomala ndi kumaliza kugulitsa. Pamene bwana wathu anandifunsa momwe zinthu zikuyendera, ndinamuuza kuti zonse zikuyenda bwino ndipo Dan adangomaliza kulembetsa makasitomala wotsutsa ndi kutseka kugulitsa.
Anali kupambana-kupambana-kupambana- kwa abwana athu, Dan, ndi wogula.
Ndiuzeni za nthawi yomwe simunagwire bwino ntchito ndi woyang'anira. Zotsatira zake zinali zotani ndipo mungasinthe bwanji zotsatira zake?
Kumayambiriro kwa ntchito yanga, ndinali ndi mtsogoleri (Judy) yemwe anali ndichisangalalo chabwino pa Lolemba, koma zinasokonekera tsiku lirilonse mpaka, Lachisanu, woyang'anira anali kupeza cholakwika ndi zonse zomwe ndachita. Sindinadziwe, mpaka nditasiya udindo umenewo, kuti ndakhala ndikuthandizira kuchepa kwake. Judy angandifunse momwe mapeto a mlungu wanga adaliri (Lolemba) ndipo pa sabata amakhoza kufunsa momwe izo zikuyendera. Ndikanamuuza kuti ndikusangalala bwanji (ndinali wosakwatiwa) komanso momwe ndimayang'anira mapulani a sabata. Nditachoka, ndinazindikira kuti moyo wanga unali wosiyana kwambiri ndi iye ndipo ndinamukumbutsa tsiku lililonse. Pamene iye anafunsa mafunso, ine ndikanayenera kuti ndiyankhe mofulumira, ndiyeno ndinamufunsa iye momwe iye analiri!
Kodi munagwira ntchito ndi munthu amene simunamufune? Ngati ndi choncho, munayesetsa bwanji?
Inde, ndagwira ntchito ndi munthu amene ndinkamukonda kukhala munthu. Komabe, pamene ndinayang'ana pa luso lomwe adabweretsa kuntchito, kuthekera kwawo kuthetsa mavuto ndi zinthu ziwiri zomwe ndinayamikira, pang'onopang'ono maganizo anga kwa iwo anasintha.
Sitinali mabwenzi, koma tinagwirira ntchito limodzi.
Kodi mungandiuze za nthawi yomwe munathandizira wina?
Posachedwapa, tinali ndi malipiro atsopano (Paul) omwe anali akulimbana ndi kuyamba kugwira ntchito nthawi, ndipo ndinadziwa kuti abwana (Harry) akukwiya. Tsiku lina chakudya chamasana tsiku lina ndinamufotokozera Paulo kuti kunali kofunika kwa bwana kuti aliyense akhalepo mphindi khumi zoyambirira. Ndinali munthu ndi Harry, koma mumatha kufika kumbali yake yoyipa pamene mumakhala mochedwa. Wophunzira watsopanoyu anayamikira malangizowa. Pa ntchito yake yakale, bwanayo ankangoganizira za ntchito yomwe ikuchitika pa nthawi; iye sanaganizire "ola."
Kodi mungandiwuze za nthawi yomwe munamunamizira munthu?
Panali munthu wogwira ntchito nthawi yaitali (George) pa kampani yanga yachiwiri yemwe anali wodandaula kwambiri pamene adalankhula nane.
Poyamba, ndinayesetsa kuti ndisangalale ndi George. Kenaka ndinazindikira kuti vutoli linali lolemetsa. Kotero ndinayang'ana momwe adayanjanirana ndi antchito ena ndipo adapeza kuti sindinali ndekha. Iye anali wovuta kwa anthu ambiri. Ndinasiya kuyesetsa kuti ndiyanjidwe naye, ndipo, pozindikira, adapeza kuti adaphunzira khalidwe lake kwa bwana wakale omwe adawakonda.
Mukugwirizana bwanji ndi ogwira nawo ntchito okalamba (aang'ono)?
Yankho lofunsidwa ngati ogwira nawo ntchito ali okalamba: Pali nthawi pamene ndimangodziwa kuti njira yatsopano yochitira chinachake imandithandiza kwambiri; koma, mdzanja loyamba, ndinaphunzira kuti "njira yanga yabwino" siingakhale njira yabwino yothetsera ntchitoyi. Zotsatira zake, ndikulemekeza abwenzi anga achikulire chidziwitso ndipo ndaphunzira momwe mungapangire malingaliro pa nthawi yoyenera.
Yankho lofunsidwa ngati ogwira nawo ntchito ali aang'ono: Ndinazindikira mwamsanga kuti si ntchito yanga kwa "kholo" achinyamata omwe ndimagwira nawo ntchito; Ndinali ntchito yanga kuti ndiwadziwe komanso kuti tipeze malo omwe tingagwirizane ntchito limodzi. Zinatenga nthawi, koma zotsatira zake zinali zoyenera.