Nazi njira zinayi zomwe zingakhalire zabwino pamene mukugwira ntchitoyi kuti mukhale yaikulu.
Sungani Zomwe Mukumvera
M'malo mowononga mphamvu kuganizira za izi, yongolinso mphamvu kuti ikhale chitsanzo chabwino. Kaya mukupita ku kalasi ya masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuyendetsa njanji , kupeza mipando yatsopano, kapena kuphunzira zambiri zokhudza malonda, pali njira zabwino kwambiri zogwiritsira ntchito mphamvu zanu kuposa kukhala ndi nkhawa. Mwinanso mungatenge nthawi kuti mupeze wotsogolera chitsanzo kapena wina amene akukulimbikitsani kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino.
Pitirizani Kuyesa
Mwamwayi, zitsanzo zina zimatha kumva "ayi" nthawi zingapo monga chizindikiro choti ayenera kusiya. Zitsanzo ndi malingaliro abwino , komabe, kumbukirani kuti nthawi zambiri amamva ayi, akuyandikira kwambiri inde! Ngati mukuganiza kuti "ayi" amatanthauza kuti muyenera kusiya malingaliro anu kuti mukhale chitsanzo chabwino, ganiziraninso. Amitundu ambiri opambana lero akhala akudutsa zomwe mukukumana nazo.
Aliyense (zitsanzo kapena ayi) akuyamba kwinakwake, ndipo kwa zitsanzo zambiri, "kwinakwake" ndi njira yowopsya yovuta kupeza, kuyipeza, ndi kuigwiritsa ntchito ngati chitsanzo.
Khalani Ochita Zokwanira
Ngakhale simunayambe ntchito kuti muyambe kuitanitsa , mutha kupeza zambiri zamtengo wapatali kuchokera ku audition kapena tryout.
Zindikirani zomwe zitsanzo zina zikuchita pa kuyitana, ndikuwone ngati ali ndi luso lomwe lingakhale lopindulitsa kuti muphunzire. Padzakhala wina yemwe ali ndi chidziwitso kuposa iwe, bwanji osapatula mwayi wophunzira kuchokera kwa iwo, osati kuwopsya ndi kusiya? Kumbukirani, nthawizina palibe chirichonse chomwe iwe ukanachita mosiyana kapena bwinoko, iwe mophweka sunali nkhope yoyenera ya ntchitoyo, kapena osati zomwe otsogolera akutsogolera akuwonetsera polojekitiyo. Idzafika nthawi pamene ngakhale chitsanzo china chiri ndi zodziwa zambiri kuposa iwe, ndiwe amene mawotchi oyang'anira anali nawo mu malingaliro, ndipo idzakhala nthawi yanu yomvera "Inde!"
Chitani Zinthu Zomwe Zimakupangitsani Kukhala Wokoma
Ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala osatsimikizika pankhani yoponya mafoni ndikuyesera kupeza ntchito monga chitsanzo, pali zinthu zomwe mukudziwa kale zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale omasuka. Mwinamwake ndikuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kukumana ndi mnzanu, kuyang'ana kanema yomwe mumaikonda, kupeza nkhope, kapena kusamba bwino kofiira. Chilichonse chomwe chiri, tenga nthawi kuti udzipindule chifukwa cha khama lanu chifukwa kuyimba ndi kufufuza sikophweka. Chifukwa chakuti simunasankhidwe kuntchito, sizikutanthauza kuti simunagwire ntchito mwakhama komanso kuti simukuyenera kudzimvera nokha.