Khalani Womvera Mwachangu ndi Kuwonjezera Ntchito Yanu Yogwirira Ntchito
Mofananamo, munthu yemwe ali ndi kumva koopsa kwambiri angakhale womvera wosauka.
Mu 1991 bungwe la Secretary of Labor of the United States of Labor on Achieving Skills Required (SCANS) linatulukira luso zisanu ndi luso la maziko atatu omwe ali ofunika kwa iwo omwe akulowa ntchito. Kumvetsera mwachidwi ndi chimodzi mwa luso la maziko. Ndilo luso lofewa , lomwe ndi khalidwe la umunthu kapena khalidwe laumwini limene munthu amabadwa nalo kapena akhoza kupeza kudzera mu maphunziro, ntchito, kapena moyo wake.
Maluso omvetsera amalola anthu, mosasamala kanthu momwe amachitira zambiri, kumvetsa zomwe ena akunena. Poika mawu omveka bwino, amakulolani kumvetsa zomwe wina "akukamba." Tangoganizani kuti kukhala womvetsera mwakhama kungakuthandizeni bwanji kuntchito?
Mmene Kumvetsetsa Kwabwino Kumathandizira Kuchita Kwako Kugwira Ntchito
Maluso omvetsera omveka adzakuthandizani kuti mukhale wogwira ntchito kwambiri.
Adzakuthandizani kuti:
- kumvetsetsa bwino ntchito ndi zomwe abwana anu amayembekeza kwa inu;
- kumanga ubale ndi antchito anzanu, mabwana, ndi makasitomala chifukwa aliyense akufuna kuti amvetsetse;
- onetsani chithandizo kwa ena;
- gwiritsani ntchito bwino mu chikhalidwe chamagulu;
- kuthetsa mavuto ndi makasitomala, ogwira nawo ntchito, ndi mabwana;
- yankhani mafunso; ndi
- pezani tanthauzo lenileni la zomwe ena akunena.
Mmene Mungakhalire Womvetsera Mwakhama ndi Kuwoneka Ngati Mmodzi
Anthu ambiri sali obadwa ndi luso lomvetsera bwino. Ngakhale omwe nthawi zambiri amamvetsera kwambiri amakhala ndi makhalidwe omwe amawoneka kuti sakuyenera kuwamvetsera. Malangizo otsatirawa angakuthandizeni kudziwa momwe mungakhalire womvera, komanso kuti muwoneke ngati:
- Pitirizani Kuyanjana ndi Diso: Pamene mukuyang'ana munthu mumaso, mulibe chisankho koma kumvetsera. Ndipo sipadzakhalanso funso ngati mukuchita zimenezo.
- Musasokoneze Wokamba nkhani: Sungani mafunso anu ndi ndemanga mpaka wokamba atatha kulankhula ndipo mukhoza kukumba mawu ake.
- Khalanibebe: Kukulitsa kumakuchititsani kuti muwoneke osasangalatsa.
- Nod Mutu Wanu: Izi zikuwonetsa wokamba nkhani kuti mukuphunzira zomwe akupereka.
- Yang'anirani Zosagwirizana Ndizolemba: Kuika chidwi pa zomwe wokamba nkhani sakunena ndi kofunikira monga kumvetsera mawu ake. Fufuzani mawu osalankhula monga nkhope ndi maimidwe kuti mupeze chidziwitso chonse cha zomwe wolankhula akupereka.
- Wotsamira Kwa Wowankhula Pulezidenti : Iwe udzawoneka kuti uli, ndipo ndithudi udzakhala, watanganidwa.
- Bweretsani Malangizowo ndi Kufunsa Mafunso Oyenera: Wokamba nkhani atatha kumayankhula, abwerezenso malangizo kuti atsimikizire kuti mumamvetsa. Iyi ndi nthawi yabwino kufunsa mafunso ngati muli nawo.
Zolepheretsa Kumvetsera
Ngati mumatsata malangizowo, muyenera kumvetsera bwino, koma zingapo zingalepheretsedwe, kuphatikizapo:
- zokonda zanu kapena tsankho;
- kulephera kumvetsa wokamba nkhani chifukwa cha mawu achilendo;
- Kulephera kumva chifukwa cha phokoso;
- nkhawa, mantha, kapena mkwiyo; ndi
- nthawi yayitali.
Ngati mukukumana ndi njira imodzi kapena zingapo, muyenera kuyesetsa kuti muzigonjetsa. Mwachitsanzo, funsani munthu ali ndi mawu okhwima kuti alankhule pang'onopang'ono. Pitani ku malo otopetsa pamene phokoso lam'mbuyo limasokoneza luso lanu lochita zomwe wolankhulayo akunena. Zidzakhala zovuta kuthana ndi zokonda zanu kapena tsankho kusiyana ndi kuthana ndi zolepheretsa zina, koma kuzindikira kuti ndi malo abwino kuyamba.
Kumvetsera Kuyamba Kumayambiriro
Ngati muli ndi ana, mukudziwa momwe zimakhalira ngati mumalankhulana ndi khoma.
Ana ali ndi mphamvu zooneka ngati akukumvetsera pamene sakuyang'anira. Ngakhale kuti izi ndi zomwe zingadutse akamakula, ndikofunika kuthandiza ana kukhala ndi luso lomvetsera bwino kumayambiriro. Adzachita bwino kusukulu, ndipo mudzasunga bwino. Monga momwe lipoti la SCANS limanenera, luso lomvetsera bwino lidzakonzekeretsa ana kuti apambane pantchito pantchito yamtsogolo. Nazi zina zomwe mungachite:
- Mukamuuza mwana wanu kuti achite chinachake, mum'pempheni kuti abwerezenso malangizo anu.
- Phunzitsani mwana wanu kuti ayang'ane maso pamene akuyankhula kapena akumvetsera.
- Werengani mokweza kwa mwana wanu ndikumufotokozera zomwe mwawerenga.
- Yambitsani mwana wanu ntchito zoyenera zomwe zimalimbikitsa luso lomvetsera bwino.