Pitirizani Kuchita Zabwino
Kulankhulana kwanu pakulankhulana pambuyo pa kuyankhulana kudzakhudza abwana kuti aone ngati mukufunira. Kutumiza nkhani yothokoza , koma iyenera kukhala yabwino osati mwamsanga "zikomo chifukwa choyankhulana" uthenga wa imelo.
Ndikofunika kutsindika kuti ntchitoyo ikugwirizana bwanji ndi mbiri yanu, komanso cholinga chanu cholimbikira kugwira ntchitoyi ndi abwana anu. Kuonjezera apo, mudzafuna kupewa chilichonse chimene chidzautsa kukayikira kulikonse ndi maganizo anu, zolinga zanu, kapena ziyeneretso zanu.
Zinthu Zomwe Sitiyenera Kuphatikizira Kalata Yokambirana
Malangizo awa pa zomwe simukuzilemba mu kalata yanu yotsatila ingakuthandizeni kupewa kupeleka uthenga wolakwika kwa olemba ntchito.
1. Musangophatikizapo mawu okha oyamikira . Onetsetsani kuti mutsimikiziranso chidwi chanu pantchito ndikufotokozerani mwachidule chifukwa chake malowa ndi ofunikira kwambiri.
2. Mauthenga anu ndi zitsanzo za luso lanu lolemba ndikuwunika tsatanetsatane. Musaiwale kupenda mosamalitsa ndi kukonza zolakwika zonse zapulogalamu kapena ma grammatical, ndipo onetsetsani kuti muli ndi udindo woyenera wa ntchito, adiresi, ndi dzina. Uwu ndi mwayi wotsatila ndi mphamvu yabwino, kotero musapangitse ngakhale kulakwa kochepa.
3. Musatchule mndandanda wa malipiro mu kalata yanu. Dikirani mpaka pempho liperekedwa kuti mukambirane za malipiro, popeza kuti ntchito yanu idzakhala yaikulu pomwe abwana atsimikiza kuti ndinu woyenera.
4. Musapange zifukwa kapena kupepesa pa chilichonse chomwe chinalakwika panthawi yofunsidwa. Ndibwino kuti musayang'ane nkhaniyi.
Tsindikani makhalidwe abwino omwe angagwirizane ndi nkhawa iliyonse yomwe idabwera pamsonkhano wanu. Zingakhale zosiyana ngati mukuganiza kuti zoyankhulanazo zinali zoipa kuti simungathe kukangana.
5. Musatchule mbali iliyonse ya malo omwe amakupangitsani kukayikira kuyenera kwa ntchitoyo. Yembekezani mpaka mutapereka thandizo kuti mupeze tsatanetsatane wokhudza zigawo zikuluzikulu za ntchito yomwe ikukukhudzani. Musamupatse abusa zifukwa zilizonse zoyesa kukayikira ngati ndinu machesi musanafike pomaliza kusankha. Chosiyana ndi chitsogozo ichi chingakhale pamene mukudziwa kuti simukufuna ntchito, koma mumakonda kampani. Zikatero, munganene kuti mudakondwera ndi bungwe ndikufunsa ngati pangakhale malo ena omwe anali oyenera.
6. Musaphatikizepo chilankhulo chomwecho mu makalata ngati mukuwatumiza mosiyana ndi oyankhulana osiyanasiyana. Ganizilani za chinthu chilichonse chimene munthu aliyense adagawana chomwe chinali chothandiza kapena chinachititsa chidwi chanu. Njira ina ndikutsimikizira zinthu zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa zomwe munthu adanena. Ofunsayo adzakondwera ngati mutenga nthawi yanu kuti muzitha kugwiritsa ntchito mauthenga anu.
7. Musapange mawu osatsutsika kapena okokomeza monga "Ntchitoyi ikufanana kwambiri ndi mbiri yanga." Onetsetsani kuti muli ndi mawu othandizira ndemanga zanu.
Mwachitsanzo, munganene kuti, "Ndine wokondwa kwambiri kuti ndingathe kugwiritsira ntchito ntchito zogwirizana ndi anthu chifukwa zandithandiza kuti ndigwiritse ntchito kulemba kwanga, kukonzekera masewero, ndi maluso a mauthenga."
8. Musati mutenge njira yowopsya podziwa kuti mudzayitanitsa kuti muyang'ane udindo wanu. Mwamtheradi mukhoza kupanga kufufuza kumapeto kwawindo la nthawi yomwe abwana amasonyeza pa chisankho chawo. Inu simukusowa kuti mutchule izi mu kalata yanu.
9. Musaphatikizepo maumboni pokhapokha mutapemphedwa. Palibe chifukwa chophatikiza maumboni ndi makalata anu otsatira. Pamene bwana akufuna mndandanda wa maumboni , adzakufunsani.
10. Musaphatikizepo mafunso aliwonse okhudza kubwezeredwa kwa ndalama zanu zoyankhulana. Kulankhulana kwanu kuyenera kutumizidwa mwamsanga mukatha kuyankhulana .
Kalata yanu ikhale yokhudzidwa ndi chidwi chanu pa ntchitoyo komanso kuti ikugwirizana bwanji. Zina zilizonse zingasokoneze uthenga wanu. Tumizani pepala lapadera kenako kuti muthe kulimbana ndi nkhani iliyonse yobwezera.