Izi zimaphatikizapo chilankhulo cha thupi lanu ndi zomwe zimatchedwa "zilankhulo" - zigawo za mawu anu pambali pa mawu, monga mawu anu, kuyankhula mofulumira, kupuma ndi kupuma, ndi nkhope.
Kulankhulana kosamvana kumaphatikizapo zovala zanu ndi kukonzekera kwanu.
Kulankhulana kosagwirizana ndikofunika, kapena kofunika kwambiri kuposa, kulankhulana mawu. Wofunsayo adzawona kulankhulana kwanu kosagwirizana pa zokambirana zonse. Ngati maluso anu olankhulana osagwirizana ndi ena, sizilibe kanthu momwe mumayankhira bwino mafunsowa.
Nkhani Zosayankhulana Zosavomerezeka
Zolankhulirana zosayankhula mukangoyenda pakhomo la ofesi. Ngati mubwera kuyankhulana ndi utsi wa fodya kapena kutafuna chingamu, mudzakhala ndi chigamulo chotsutsana ndi inu. Mafuta ochuluka kwambiri kapena osakwanira okwanira sangathandizenso ngakhale.
Popanda kuvala moyenera kapena kuchotsa nsapato kukupatsani chigwirizano chachiwiri. Kuyankhula pa foni yanu kapena kumvetsera nyimbo pamene mukudikirira kuti muitanidwe kukayankhulana kungakhale kugunda kwanu kotsiriza.
Chofunika kwambiri pamene kuyankhulana ndikuwoneka katswiri, atcheru, ndi wodalirika ponseponse pakuyankhulana .
Mmene Mungakonzekere
Kumbukirani kuti fano limene wofunsayo ali nalo panthawi yoyamba kukumana nanu ndilo limene lidzatha. Ngati muli ovuta, osalankhula kapena osokonezeka, sizilibe kanthu momwe mumayankhira bwino mafunso oyankhulana. Iwe sudzapeza ntchitoyo.
Pochita zokambirana, gwiritsani ntchito mauthenga anu osalankhula komanso maluso anu oyankhulana.
Zingakhale zomwe amagwiritsira ntchito ntchito yanu. Mukhoza kuchita ndi mnzanu kapena woyeserera mafunso omwe amachititsa zokambirana zachinyengo ndikukupatsani mayankho. Mukhozanso kujambula filimu nokha ndikuwonanso mauthenga anu osalankhula.
Musanayambe kukambirana, onetsetsani kuti mwavala bwino , mukukonzekera bwino, nsapato zanu zimapukutidwa, ndipo simunapitirire mafuta onunkhira kapena pambuyo pake (palibe chabwino kuposa chowonjezera).
Zimene Mungayambitse Kucheza
Pali zinthu zomwe muyenera kuzibweretsa ndi inu ku zokambirana ndi zinthu zomwe muyenera kuchoka panyumba. Kutsatira malangizowo pamndandandawu kudzakuthandizani kuti musamalankhulane momasuka:
- Pulojekiti kapena pulogalamu ya pulogalamu yanu ndi pulogalamu yanu yopitiliza ndi mndandanda wa zolemba pamapepala abwino
- Zitsanzo za ntchito (ngati ziyenera)
- Notipi ndi cholembera
- Mphuno yamphuno (musanalowe m'nyumbayi)
- Akazi: owonjezera pantyhose (onetsetsani chikwangwani kapena galimoto yanu)
Chimene Sichiyenera Kubweretsa Kukambirana
- Foni yam'manja
- Gum
- Ndudu
- Makandulo
- Soda kapena khofi
- Nsapato zobisika, zodetsa komanso / kapena zovala zosayera
Pamene Mukudikira
Momwe mumakhalira pakhomo la alendo, momwe mumalonjera wolandira alendo komanso woyankhulana, ndi momwe mukudikirira, zonsezi zidzakhudza ngati mutaganiziridwa ntchitoyo.
Khalani okomerana ndi okondweretsa, koma osapambanitsa. Ngati mukufunikira kuyembekezera, khalani chete (opanda mafoni) ndi moleza mtima.
Gwiranani chanza ndi wofunsayo. Kugwirana chanza kwanu kukhale kolimba - osati kokakamiza kapena wimpy. Pofuna kupewa mitedza ya sweaty, pitani kuchipinda, sambani manja anu, ndiye muthamangire pansi pa madzi ozizira musanayambe kuyankhulana. Gwiritsani manja anu kutsegula m'malo mogwirana ndi chifuwa ndikusungunulani mthumba mwanu kuti muwapatse.
Kulankhulana Kwabodza Pakati pa Ofunsana
- Yang'anani maso ndi wofunsayo kwa masekondi angapo pa nthawi.
- Sungani ndi kuvomereza (pa nthawi yoyenera) pamene wofunsayo akuyankhula, koma musapitirire. Musaseke pokhapokha wofunsayo atayamba.
- Khalani olemekezeka ndipo musamamve mawu anu. Musakhale mokweza kwambiri kapena chete.
- Musataye.
- Pumulani ndikutsamira patsogolo kwa wofunsayo kuti muwoneke kuti mukukhudzidwa ndikuchita nawo kanthu.
- Musadalirenso. Mudzawoneka osasamala komanso omasuka.
- Sungani mapazi anu pansi ndi nsana wanu kumbuyo kumbuyo kwa mpando.
- Samalirani kwambiri kwa wofunsayo. Lembani manotsi ngati mukuda nkhawa kuti simungakumbukire chinachake.
- Mvetserani.
- Musasokoneze.
- Khalani chete. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi zolakwika pa malo omwe munakhalapo kale kapena mutathamangitsidwa, sungani maganizo anu nokha ndipo musasonyeze mkwiyo kapena kukhumudwa.
- Osatsimikiza chochita ndi manja anu? Lembani cholembera ndi zolemba zanu kapena pumulani mkono pa mpando kapena pamphuno lanu, kotero muwoneke bwino. Musalole kuti manja anu aziuluka mozungulira chipinda pamene mukupanga mfundo.
Kulankhulana kwapathengo pamapeto a zokambirana
Musanayambe kuyankhulana, onetsetsani kuti mupatseni wofunsayo kuti agwirane chanza ndi kumwetulira. Pamene mukupita, funsani munthu wolandira alendo kapena wina aliyense amene mumamuyankhula panthawi yofunsidwa.
N'zoona kuti kulankhula kwanu n'kofunika kwambiri. Musagwiritse ntchito slang. Yankhulani momveka bwino. Kumbukirani khalidwe lanu ndikuthokoza wofunsayo kuti mutenge nthawi kuti mukakumane nanu.