Kupitilira Mapambidwe a Mgwirizano Si Onse
Poopa kukhala ndi mphamvu, ngakhale kuti mukuyenerera ndipo mukulikonda, sikuyenera kukulepheretsani kukwera makampani. Ngati mwapatsidwa mwayi wokwezedwa mmwamba kapena mukuganiza ngati mukugwira ntchito imodzi, dzifunseni mafunso awa:
- Kodi ndinu wokhoza komanso wokonzeka kugwira ntchito maola ochuluka popanda malipiro owonjezera pa nthawi yowonjezera? Ngakhale kuti kukwezedwa kwa udindo wotsogolera mwina kumabwera ndi kuwonjezeka kwa malipiro , kumaperekanso ndi kudzipereka kwanthawi yaitali. Maudindo ena nthawi zambiri amatanthauza kufika kuntchito kale ndikukhala mtsogolo. Ku United States, Federal Labor Standards Act kawirikawiri imapereka mwayi kwa abwana kuti akhale oyenerera kuti azilipira nthawi yochulukirapo , kotero kuti maola owonjezerawo samasulira ndalama zambiri.
- Kodi ndinu abwino kupereka ntchito kwa anthu ena? Ngati mutapatsidwa udindo wambiri popanda kugawa ntchito kwa ena, ndinu chabe munthu amene ali ndi ntchito yovuta, osati kwenikweni woyang'anira. Monga woyang'anira, muyenera kugawana zolemetsa ndi oyang'anira anu. Izi zingatanthauze kusiya zinthu zomwe mumakondwera ndikuziphunzitsa ena momwe angachitire ntchitozo. Mudzafunikanso kuyankha zolakwa za anthu ena. Izi zimatifikitsa ku mfundo ziwiri zotsatira.
- Kodi ndinu wokonzeka kutenga udindo, osati zolakwa zanu komanso zolakwa zanu, koma chifukwa cha zolephera zanu ndi zolakwa zanu? Momwemo, mudzafotokozera mosamala wogwira ntchito anu momwe mungagwire ntchito yomwe mumamupatsa. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti sadzalephera kapena kulakwitsa . Pamene aliyense ali ndi udindo pa zochita zake, monga abwana, potsiriza udindo ndi wanu.
- Kodi ndinu wabwino pakupereka kutsutsa kokondweretsa? Pamene mmodzi wa antchito anu amachita ntchito yosauka kapena akulakwitsa, chidziwitso chanu chingakhale kumudandaulira kapena kusanena kalikonse. Kuyandikira sikungakupindulitseni inu kapena mnzanu wapansi. Ntchito yanu monga abwana ndi kuphunzitsa wogwira ntchito wanu kuti apange ntchito yabwino nthawi yomweyo. Fotokozani chomwe chinali cholakwika. Ndiye mukuyenera kutenga chikhulupiliro ndikupereka ntchito ina kwa wina amene walephera koma amene mukuyembekeza kuti apambana.
- Kodi mudzatha kudzudzula wantchito chifukwa cha zolakwa? Mukhoza kukhala ndi wantchito yemwe nthawi zonse amabwera mochedwa, amathera nthawi yochuluka kwambiri pa intaneti kapena amachitira zinthu molakwika. Anthu ambiri samasangalala kukhala munthu woipa, koma ndi ntchito ya abwana kuti atsimikizire kuti aliyense akuchita zomwe akuyenera kuchita. Antchito anu adzakulemekezani chifukwa ndinu okhwima koma osakondera.
- Kodi mudzateteza omvera anu pamene mukudziwa kuti ali olondola, ngakhale zitanthawuza kuimirira kwa bwana wanu? Bwana wanu akhoza kudandaula za membala wanu. Ngati ali oyenera, muyenera kuthandiza wogwira ntchitoyo kukonzanso ntchito yake (kumbukirani funso ili pamwambapa ponena za kutsutsa kokondweretsa). Ngati zodandaulazo siziri zolondola, mungafunike kutetezera chitetezo chanu. Izi zikhoza kutanthauza kukwera motsutsana ndi bwana wanu, choncho khalani osamala monga momwe mungathere.
- Kodi mungathe kuwotcha wantchito chifukwa chosagwira bwino ntchito yake? Kuwombera munthu yemwe sakuchita ntchito yabwino kumakhala kosavuta kwambiri kuposa momwe akuchitira. Ndiye mumayamba kuganiza za ngongole yomwe ayenera kubweza komanso ana omwe ali ndi pakamwa pake ndipo zimakhala zovuta. Ntchito ndi ntchito, ndipo iyenera kuti ithe. Ngati simungathe kuthandiza wina kusintha ntchito yake, ndiye udindo wanu ndi pansi pa abwana anu.
- Kodi mungathe kuwotcha wogwira ntchito yemwe sanachite cholakwika chilichonse koma ayenera kuloledwa kupita chifukwa china, monga kuchepetsa ? Ili ndilo gawo la ntchito yomwe palibe woyang'anira amasangalala koma, makamaka poyesera ndalama, ambiri sangathe kuthawa ntchitoyi. Kuwotcha munthu sikumakhala kophweka, koma vuto limakula makamaka pamene kuthetsa sikuli chifukwa cha zochita za ogwira ntchito.
- Kodi mungasunge maganizo anu ponena za wogonjera kuti asamayambe kumuyang'anira? Chowonadi chiripo ndi anthu omwe timawakonda ndi omwe amangofika pansi pa khungu chifukwa cha zifukwa zomwe sizikanakhala zomveka kwa wina koma ife tokha. KaƔirikaƔiri si vuto, koma pamene muyang'anila munthu, sizingapange kusiyana ngati mumamukonda ngati munthu kapena ayi. Cholinga chanu monga woyang'anira ndi kukhala wachilungamo kwa aliyense mosasamala kanthu momwe mumamverera za iye.
- Kodi mumatha kunena ayi? Monga woyang'anira, nthawi zambiri mumayenera kupempha zopempha zanu. Muyenera kuwuza wina yemwe sangathe kutenga tchuthi panthawi yovuta kwambiri ya chaka kapena mungakane pempho lakumwamba pamene kampani silingakwanitse kupereka imodzi. Kumbukirani, monga bwana muyenera kugwira ntchito m'malo mwa bwana wanu komanso pazinthu zabwino.