M'zaka za m'ma 1970 kupyolera mu '90s mtundu wa A, wothamangitsidwa, waukali unali ukali chifukwa anthu awa anali ndi zomwe zinkafunika kukwera mmwamba ndikukantha zovuta. Kenaka asayansi a zaumoyo adapeza kuti mtundu wa A ndi odwala matenda a mtima, makamaka chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chawo choyipa kwa ena.
Kuphunzira kwakukulu kwa antchito oposa 20,000 ku Ulaya kunasonyeza kuti kukhala ndi bwana woipa kumawonjezera chiopsezo cha antchito cha matenda a mtima. Zikuwoneka ngati kukhala wopanda mtima kumapweteka mtima wanu.
Kumtunda kwa Grit
Mibadwo yakale ingatipangitse ife kukhulupirira kuti ngati mutagwira ntchito mwakhama, aliyense akhoza kuchita chilichonse. Posachedwapa, Angela Duckworth wakhala akufalitsa kafukufuku wosonyeza kuti grit, chomwe chimaphatikizapo kupirira ndi chilakolako, ndicho chinsinsi cha ntchito yopambana monga momwe zimatanthawuzira ndi ndalama, kukhutira ntchito, ndi kukwezedwa. Eya, masiku awa apita zaka zikwizikwi sakusamala pang'ono za maudindo ndi malipiro komanso zambiri zokhudza udindo ndi chikhalidwe.
Grit inganeneretu kupambana kwa ntchito komanso imakhala yochepa kwambiri. Ngati mutanthawuza kupambana monga "kupita patsogolo mu bizinesi," ndiye kukwezedwa ndi maudindo apamwamba kumakondweretsa kwambiri. Daniel Goleman, wolemba mabuku wotchuka kwambiri amene wasonyeza lingaliro la nzeru zamaganizo, amalankhula mochititsa chidwi kafukufuku wosonyeza kuti anthu achikulire amakhalanso odzikonda okha, ovuta kugwirizana nawo, ndipo amathamangitsa ena kuchoka.
Iwo sali masewera otetezeka kwambiri a timu ndi atsogoleri.
Ndipotu, abwana ambiri amafunafuna makhalidwe ena kupatulapo polemba ntchito. Grit ndi yofunikira, ndipo sikuti ndiyomwe yongopambana. Kutengedwa modzipatula, grit angakhale ndi udindo pa nyengo yamasiku ano.
Kupambana Konse Kumakhudzana ndi Kulumikizana ndi Maluso Ogwirizana
Nanga ndi chinsinsi chiti chomwe chimapindulitsa lero?
Kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti wina wapambana mwachangu: kugwirizana ndi luso la ubale.
Seti Godin, utsogoleri ndi bizinesi yamalonda, akuti tsopano tikukhala mu chuma chamagwirizano, komwe kukwanitsa kulumikizana ndi ena ndikugwirizanitsa anthu wina ndi mnzake ndikofunika.
European Journal of Personality inafotokoza mwatsatanetsatane za kupambana kwa ntchito, powona kuti kuthetsa ndi kulumikiza mauthenga ambiri akuwonetseratu kupambana kwa ntchito m'moyo.
Chimene sichinasinthe pa zaka 100 zapitazi ndikuti yemwe mumadziwa amadziwa zambiri kuposa zomwe mukudziwa. Ubale wosiyanasiyana umatsegula mwayi ndi mwayi. Anthu amathandiza anthu omwe amawadziwa ndi kuwakhulupirira.
Mu 2015, Forbes anafotokoza zotsatira za kafukufuku wochuluka wa anzanu, kusonyeza kuti kungokhala pamsewu wotseguka m'malo mwa kutsekedwa ndi njira yabwino yopambana ntchito. Kukhala wotseguka ku malingaliro atsopano, kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano, ndi kukumana ndi anthu atsopano ndizofunikira pakugwirizanitsa chuma.
Chinthu chathu chogwira ntchito ndi atsogoleri pazolankhulirana ndi maluso amtendere chimasonyeza chitsanzo chomwecho. Timayesa ndikuphunzitsa luso la utsogoleri atatu:
- Kutseguka
- Zothandizira
- Kulimbikira
Chilichonse ndi chofunikira koma sichikwanira kwa utsogoleri wamkulu.
Palimodzi, izi zimapanga zomwe timakhulupirira ndikutanthauzira kweniyeni kwa chifundo, kulimbana ndi ena m'malo momenyana nawo.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti atsogoleri omwe ali ndi vuto lotsogolera akulemba mobwerezabwereza otsika kwambiri mu Openness. Ndipo anzawo ndi otsatila amavomereza kuti izi ndizolakwa. Pogwirizanitsa chuma, sitingakwanitse kutaya mphamvu zotsutsana ndi ena m'njira zovuta kuti tipite patsogolo.
Malangizo 3 Okuthandizani Kupita Patsogolo ndi Chifundo
Ndiye mumatani kuti mukhale ndi chifundo, kugwirizanitsa, ndi kukhazikitsa malo otseguka? Nazi malingaliro angapo omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mukwaniritse bwino mu kugwirizana kwa chuma.
- Sungani malonda anu: Tsatirani ndikuyanjana ndi anthu omwe maganizo awo ndi osiyana ndi anu. Kafukufuku wina wa zizoloŵezi zamasewero olimbitsa chitukuko chawonetserako mawonetsero osiyana kwambiri kuposa anzawo omwe sali opambana. Pewani kukakamiza zomwe mumakhulupirira, mmalo mwake, phunzirani zonse zomwe mungathe chifukwa chake ena amaganiza, kumva, ndikuchita momwe amachitira.
- Khalani ogwirizana: Fufuzani njira zobweretsera anthu pamodzi. Fufuzani anthu omwe mumadziwa omwe angawonjezere phindu pazomwe mukufunikira. Kenaka pangani ziganizozo.
- Khalani omasuka: Yesetsani kumvetsetsa kwanu mwa kufunafuna choyamba kuti mumvetse malingaliro a wina musanayambe kukakamiza nokha. Limbikitsani ndi kutsimikizira anthu mwa kuzindikira zomwe akuchita bwino mmalo mwa zomwe akuchita zolakwika. Fotokozani malingaliro anu, zolinga zanu, ndi machitidwe anu kuti anthu adziwe kuti simubisala kalikonse ndipo akupeza nokha.
Mfundo Yofunika Kwambiri
Zakale zokhudzana ndi ntchito zapamwamba zinkakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi zisudzo, zotsutsa kuti kuyesana ndi ena kuti apite patsogolo kunali koyenera. Osatinso pano. Pogwirizanitsa chuma, kulimbana ndi ena kuti amange ndi kulumikizana ndilo msuzi wachinsinsi wopambana. Chifundo ndicho chofunikira.
Dr. Nate Regier ndi mwiniwake wogwira ntchito pamodzi ndi mkulu wa Next Element, bungwe la uphungu wadziko lonse lodziwika pomanga miyambo ya kuyankha mwachifundo. Munthu yemwe kale anali katswiri wa zamaganizo, Regier ndi katswiri wokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, maganizo ndi utsogoleri, mikangano yabwino, thanzi la thupi laumaganizo, thanzi la m'maganizo, magulu a magulu, kuyankhulana ndi utsogoleri, kutsogolera akuluakulu komanso kuphunzitsa, chitukuko cha bungwe, kumanga timagulu ndi kusintha . Mlangizi wapadziko lonse, iye ndi Mtsogoleri Wotsogolera Drama, Process Communication Model® wodziwitsani bwino komanso wothandizira pulogalamu ya Next Element Out of Drama® kuphunzitsa ndi kuphunzitsa. Nate watulutsa mabuku awiri: Beyond Drama ndi ntchito yake yatsopano, Kusamvana Popanda Mavuto.