Kupanga Mlandu wa Kusamalira Ana Kwambiri

Ndipo momwe zingakhudzira aliyense

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Amadziwika kuti pakati pa mayiko otukuka, dziko la US likuyesetsa kukhalabe ndi anzawo pa ndondomeko za kuchoka kwa banja lawo . Ichi ndi chamanyazi koma pali nkhani yaikulu yomwe tifunika kuigwira. Magaziniyi ikupeza kuti aliyense amasamalira bwino mwana wathu tonse timalota pofuna kupeza ana athu.

Ngati tipatsa mwana wathu chisamaliro kwa wina yemwe timafuna kuti ana athu aphunzire chinachake, adyetsedwe bwino, ndipo thanzi lawo ndi moyo wake zikhale zofunika kwambiri.

Mwamwayi, pali chunk wabwino ku US omwe mwina sangakwanitse kusamalira mtundu umenewu kapena omwe sali ndi malipiro okhudzana ndi kuika gawo la magawo atatu a malipiro athu pa chisamaliro cha ana.

Koma pali chiyembekezo! Kusamalira mwana wabwino kwambiri kumakhala kovuta. Anthu ngati Ivanka Trump akulimbikitsa ndipo apuloseji akuphunzitsidwa. Pano pali zomwe apeza komanso momwe kusamalira mwana wabwino kumakhudzira ife tonse.

Tiyeni tiwone kafukufuku

Ngati US anayambitsa chisamaliro chapadera cha ana, umphaŵi wa ana udzatsika. Ngati ana a maphunziro abwino, kuyambira pa kubadwa, a US akhoza "kupindula kwambiri phindu lachuma ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu" malinga ndi kafukufuku watsopano womwe unatsogoleredwa ndi Pulofesa James H. Heckman kuti, "Moyo Wopindulitsa wa Pulogalamu ya Achinyamata Yoyamba Kwambiri".

Mu kafukufuku wa a Pulofesa Heckman anyamata ndi atsikana, omwe adachokera ku mabanja osauka, analembetsa pulogalamu yaulere yosamalira ana.

Kuyambira ali wakhanda kufikira zaka zisanu ndi zitatu, anaphunzira maphunziro apamwamba a ana, nzeru zamaganizo, moyo wa kunyumba, mabanja, komanso ndalama za banja. Kenaka pa 12, 15, 21, ndi 30, maphunziro, ndalama, ndi chisamaliro chinapitilizidwa. Pa phunziro 35 anapeza nthawi yomaliza yopanga kafukufuku wa zamankhwala ndi kafukufuku wam'mbuyo.

Pulofesa Heckman adapeza kuti "dollar iliyonse yomwe imakhalapo pazinthu zapamwamba, mapulogalamu obadwa kwa asanu ndi asanu kwa ana osauka amapereka 13% pachaka kubwereketsa ndalama." Kodi izi zikutanthawuza kuti ngati boma la US linapereka ndalama pulogalamuyi mtsogolo phindu la ndalama zingakhale zazikulu.

Panalinso zopindulitsa zina zomwe zinapezedwa, nayenso. Ana mu phunziroli anali athanzi ndipo anatsogolera moyo wabwino! Iwo anali ophunzira abwino, ogwira ntchito ndipo amabweretsa kunyumba ndalama zambiri. Ana awa sangachite nawo zolakwa chifukwa ndi anthu abwino m'dera lathu. Pomaliza, amayi a ana adapeza ndalama zambiri chifukwa ana awo anali mu pulogalamuyi.

Nanga izi zimakhudza bwanji ife tonse?

Malo Ogwira Ntchito Zamakono Angakhale ndi Shakedown

Kusiyana kwa malipiro kudzatsekera mwamsanga ndithu ngati amayi akugwira ntchito akutha bwino. Pokhala ndi khalidwe labwino, amayi osamalira ana sangasokoneze kwambiri za ubwino wa mwana wawo komanso mtengo wogwirizana nawo.

Pokhala ndi chithandizo choyenera cha ana, amayi sangathe kuvutika ndi amayi akutsata kapena "chilango cha amayi". Izi zikutanthawuza kuti umayi sungathe kuwatsutsa pazochita zawo. Momwe anthu amaonera amayi angawasinthe. Iwo angawoneke ngati oyenerera ndi odzipereka kuntchito yawo.

Bloomberg.com posachedwapa adafalitsa nkhani yonena za momwe US ​​economists ayenera kukhudzidwira za kugwira ntchito amayi. Kusamalira ana ndi mabanja akuluakulu ogwira ntchito. Ngati pangakhale ana angakwanitse kusamalira amayi ochepa amasiya ntchito ndikupitirizabe kuwonjezera pa kukula kwa chuma cha US. Kuchokera kwapakhomo komanso kusinthasintha kwa ntchito kungathandizenso, koma kusamalira mwana wabwino kungakhale khungu pa keke.

Sukulu Zathu Zidzakhala Zosangalatsa Ndiponso Zosangalatsa Kwambiri

Tonse tikukhumba ife tikhoza kugwirizana. Mu chisamaliro chabwino cha ana, amaphunzira kukhala bwino ndi anzawo. Tangolingalirani zomwe dziko likukhala ngati sitiyenera kudandaula za kuzunzidwa! Popanda kusamalidwa bwino, ana sangathe kumvetsetsa kuti athe kuthana ndi mikangano. Tonse tikukhumba ife tikhoza kugwirizana. Mu mapulogalamu abwino a chisamaliro cha ana amaphunzira momwe angayendere bwino ndi anzawo.

Kuchokera pa phunzirolo, taphunzira omwe adalandira chisamaliro chokwanira chabwino ndikukhala ana abwino. Akakulira ali ndi mwayi wabwino wothandiza amayi awo kapena amuna awo bwino komanso mwina kuchepetsa nkhanza m'banja. Ndiye ana awo angakhale bwino.

Pakhoza kukhala mankhwala osokoneza pang'ono! Anthu amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala kuti athetse mavuto awo. Pokhala ndi ana osamalira mtengo, makolo akhoza kugwira ntchito molimbika, kupeza ndalama zambiri, ndi kulera bwino mwana wawo. Zoona zawo sizingakhale zomwe iwo akufuna kuti athawe! Izi zikhoza kupindulitsa ana onse chifukwa pangakhale ochita malonda ochepa pa block.

Ogwira Ntchito Athu Amtsogolo Adzakhala Phindu

Mofulumira zaka 30 mutatha kusamalira ana abwino kwambiri pakhomo. Ogwira ntchito ophunzira oyenerera adzakhala muofesi. Anthu omwe alibe ufulu wochita zachiwawa adzakhala ophweka kugwira nawo ntchito, kulimbikitsa, ndi kulimbikitsa.

Masewera a paofesi angakhale chinthu chammbuyo. Akuluakulu ochirikiza bwino amenewa adzakhala ndi nzeru zamaganizo zomwe sizidzawononga nthawi ndi mphamvu zawo pochita ndale. Ali aang'ono, akuluakuluwa adaphunzira momwe angagwirizane ndi ena. Anakulira kunja kwa umphaŵi. M'malo mokunyoza ndi nsanje, akuluakuluwa angaganizire zambiri pa gulu limodzi ndi kupambana.

Phunziro la Pulofesa Heckman limatiphunzitsa kuti tsogolo labwino likuyamba ndi kuthandiza osauka kuposa ife. Pali deta yomwe imatsimikizira izo. Pakhoza kukhala chisonkhezero chopweteketsa aliyense yemwe angakumanepo ngati US akuganiza zopereka ndalama mu chisamaliro cha ana athu. Oo. Tangoganizirani izi.