Nazi mfundo zitatu zazikulu za nkhani yake.
Khalani pa Table
Iye anati pamene munthu apambana amadzipangitsa okha, koma pamene mkazi apambana amamupatsa iye ena, mwayi kapena kuti amagwira ntchito molimbika kwambiri. Amalimbikitsa akazi kuti apeze mwayi ndi kukwezedwa, ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, khulupirirani kuti ndife oyenerera. Anapereka zitsanzo za momwe amai amaonera kuti sali woyenera kusunthira nawo. Akazi a Sandberg akulimbikitsanso akazi kuti azisintha maganizo awo, ayende pambali ndikukhala "patebulo".
Kukhala pa tebulo kukutanthauza kuti musalole kuti mipata ikudutseni. Kuti mawu anu amve, akumveka bwino. Ndipo kukhala wolimbika mokwanira kuti ufunse zomwe iwe umayenera. Bweretsani mpando wanu ku gome, khalani molunjika ndi "kudalira".
Pangani Wothandizana Naye kukhala "Weniweni" Wogwirizana Naye
Iye akuti, "Ngati mkazi ndi mwamuna amagwira ntchito nthawi zonse ndipo ali ndi mwana, mkaziyo amachita kawiri kawiri ntchito zapakhomo komanso katatu kangapo ana." Ndi chiwerengero chovomerezeka ndipo zimamva zowawa kumva.
N'zosadabwitsa kuti akazi amasiya kugwira ntchito. Amuna ndi amai amafunika kuphatikizana mofanana kunyumba kuti akazi apambane kuntchito.
Izi zikutanthauza kupempha thandizo pamene mukulifuna. Kumatanthauzanso kugawa, ngakhale pamene simunapemphedwe kuti muchite zimenezo. Khalani pansi ndi mnzanuyo ndi kukambirana za ntchito zapakhomo ndi zomwe mukufuna kuti iwo akuthandizeni.
Mukakhala ndi chiyembekezo, aliyense amadziwa zomwe ayenera kuchita.
Musati Muyambe Musanachoke
Akazi a Sandberg adalankhula za momwe mkazi angayambe kuganizira kuti adzakwaniritsa zofuna za mwana wake m'moyo wake ndiye kuti ayamba kuganiza za kusiya ntchito. Mayiyu adalankhula mobwerezabwereza kuti "adatsamira" mu nkhani yake ya TED. Amapitiriza kulangizira akazi ogwira ntchito kuti ntchito yanu ikhale yoyenera kusiya mwana wanu. Icho chiyenera kukuthandizani ndikukondweretsani inu, chifukwa ngati sichoncho, ndiye pamene mutayambiranso mwakachetechete. Pofuna kupeĊµa kudalira mwakachetechete Akazi a Sandberg akulimbikitsanso amayi apakati kuti apitirize phazi lawo patsiku lomwe mumachoka pa nthawi ya amayi oyembekezera komanso pasanapite nthawi.
Wotsamira ndi Kupita Kwa Iwo
Amapitiriza kukamba za momwe akazi, mwadzidzidzi, amadzibisira ntchito zawo. Kenaka amagwiritsa ntchito mawu ophatikizana akuti "wotsamira", kufunafuna zovuta, ndikupitirizabe kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo popanda mantha.
Ngati mwatsamira ku Sheryl Sandberg mumakhulupirira kuti mutha kulimbikitsidwa ngakhale mutakhala ndi ana ang'onoang'ono. Anati mwina simungakhale ndi nthawi yovuta kugwira ntchito ndi banja lanu pantchito yanu yatsopano. Mudzamva kuti mukudandaula za ntchito yanu yolimba. Ndipo pamene tsiku likudza kuti muperekedwa kukwezedwa mudzafunsa "Bwanji ine?
m'malo mofunsa "Chifukwa chiyani ine?".
Pamtima pa nkhaniyi zomwe Sheryl Sandberg akuchita zimatsutsa lingaliro lakuti amayi akufunikira kusankha pakati pa ntchito ndi banja. Iye akutsutsa kuti amayi apamtima ndiwo njira yabwino kwa amayi onse ogwira ntchito. M'malo moganizira zomwe simungathe kuchita kapena pazolepheretsa kupita patsogolo kwanu , amalimbikitsanso amai kuti aziganizira zomwe zili zabwino, ndikuwone zowonjezera ndikugwira nthawi. Iye akuti nthawi zonse ankayembekeza kuyambitsa chikhalidwe cha anthu, ndipo "kudalira mkati" ndi thupi la chikhumbo chimenecho.
Pano pali ndemanga yochokera m'buku la Akazi a Sandberg yomwe ikuwerengera bwino ntchito yake:
Ndalemba buku ili kulimbikitsa amayi kuti azilota zazikulu, kukonza njira kudutsa zopingazo, ndi kukwaniritsa zomwe angathe. Ndikuyembekeza kuti mkazi aliyense adzakhazikitsira zolinga zake ndi kuwafikiranso ndi gusto. Ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti munthu aliyense adzachita mbali yake kuthandiza amayi kuntchito komanso kunyumba, komanso ndi gusto. Pamene tikuyamba kugwiritsa ntchito matalente a anthu onse, mabungwe athu adzakhala opindulitsa, nyumba zathu zidzakhala zosangalatsa, ndipo ana omwe akukula m'nyumba zawo sadzakhalanso ndi zochitika zochepa.
Musanasankhe kusiya ntchito yanu , ganizirani ngati "kudalira" kungakhale bwino kwa inu. Ngati mwasokonezeka ndi zomwezo kapena thandizo lanu poika zolinga zanu zaumwini kulemba mphunzitsi ndikupeza bwino.