9 Mphwayi Mafunso Ofunsa Mafunso
Ife tonse takhala ndi gawo labwino, ndipo nthawizina pambuyo pa kuyankhulana kwa ntchito zikuchitika molakwika, zonse zomwe mungathe kuchita ndizodzikongoletsa nokha ndi kutenga phunziro lomwe mwaphunzira. Ndipo monga Eleanor Roosevelt adanena kale, "Phunzirani ku zolakwa za ena.
Simungathe kukhala ndi nthawi yaitali kuti muwapange nokha. "
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Pano pali kusonkhanitsa kwa nthawi zina zochititsa manyazi zofunsira ntchito zomwe ndamvapo. Tikuyembekeza, mudzatha kugwiritsa ntchito phunziroli pokonzekera zokambirana, ndipo mwinamwake mungakhale ndi kuseka monga mpumulo wosangalatsa wochokera pa ntchito yanu.
Masitolo Amakandulo Zopangira: Ndinkafunsa abale anga achibale malangizo othandiza kupeza ntchito. Anali wokongola kwambiri, ndipo ngakhale kuti anali ndi mpikisano wovuta, anali ndi malonda atatu abwino. Iye adanena kuti 'chinsinsi chake' chinali chakuti nthawi zonse ankatumizira buku lovuta la ntchito yake, lopangidwa ndi mankhwala otsika mtengo.
Pamene ndikupempha ntchito yanga yoyamba, ndinachita zomwezo. Ndinaitananso masiku angapo, ndikukonzekera kuyankhulana, ndipo ndinayamba kuvala chofufumitsa changa, ndikuganiza kuti chinsinsi chake chinali kugwira ntchito.
Chabwino, ndinali ndi mwayi wopita ku kampani yomwe ili ndi chikhalidwe cha ofesi.
Iwo adayesa kuti jekeseniyo idakhumudwa kwambiri ndi sitolo ya 'mall shopping mall' ndipo 'idasokoneza ofesi yonseyo.' Mwamwayi, iwo anadabwa ndi ntchito yanga yondigwira ntchito ndipo anandipatsa ine ntchito iliyonse, koma, tsopano ndikudziwa kuti chinsinsi cha bwenzi langa sichigwira ntchito!
Nthawi Zonse Zidandaule: Ndinali ndi makapu ambiri a khofi ndipo ndinkakonda kugwiritsa ntchito bafa ndisanakambirane.
Ndinathamanga kuchoka ku galimoto yanga ndipo ndinali ndikuyamba kuchotsa belt wanga pamene ndinalowetsa m'bwalo losanja losasunthika.
Mwachiwonekere, sindinamve mkaziyo akufuula, 'Wachiwiri!' pamene ine ndinali kutsegula chitseko, chifukwa ine ndinathamanga mkati momwe iye anali kukonzekera chovala chake patsogolo pa madzi. Ine ndinalowa mwa iye, ndinapepesa ndipo ndinathamanga. Ndinachita manyazi kwambiri kuti ndinathamangira kukafuna chipinda china chogona m'nyumba. Pamene inali nthawi ya kuyankhulana kwanga, ndinatumizidwa ku ofesi ya ngodya ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndi ndani yemwe anali wofunsayo - mayi amene ndinkalowa naye mu bafa!
Ndondomeko Zowirikiza: Ndinkachita khama kuti ndiyambe maphunziro a ku London, popeza ndinazindikira tsiku limene ndapeza pulogalamuyi pa tsikulo. Tsiku lomalizira linali pakati pausiku, ndipo tsiku lomwelo ndinaphunzira mpaka 9. Ndinali teni panthawi yomwe ndinkangobwera kunyumba ndipo nthawi ikuwuluka pamene ndikukwera kuti ndiyambe pamodzi ndikuyambiranso, kalata yamakalata, ndondomeko, ndi ndemanga.
Ndinathamangitsira zinthu zonse ku imelo yanga, ndipo monga momwe ndinasinthira kutumiza, ndinazindikira kuti ndalembapo zolembazo zolakwika pazolemba zanga. M'malo mwa "London Exroad Program Essay" Ndalowetsa magazini omwe ndakhala nawo mu Microsoft Word. semester ndinali nditaphunzira ku London chaka chatha, chomwe chinali ndi mutu womwewo.
Ndinayesa kutumiza nkhani ina ndikufotokozera momwe zondichitikira zimandipangitsira ine ntchito yabwino chifukwa ndinadziwa bwino chikhalidwe cha London ndikudziwa mzindawu, koma magaziniyi siinali ya 100% 'yotetezeka kuntchito' monga momwe inalembera zigawo zonse za nthawi yanga komweko, kuchokera ku ulendo wanga ku Buckingham Palace mpaka usiku usiku. Sindinayambe ndamvapo kuchokera pulogalamuyi.
Abulu amatsutsana ndi njovu: Ndinkakhala ndi munthu wofunsayo yemwe ankawoneka kuti akufuna kuyesa ndondomeko yandale yomwe ndinali nayo. Ngakhale ndale sizinali zopindulitsa kwenikweni kwa kampaniyi, inali mwezi umene asanakhale chisankho cha Presidenti, kotero ndikuganiza kuti anangothamangitsidwa kwambiri.
Choyamba, iye anafunsa kuti, 'Ngati ukanakhala nyama, ungakhale bulu kapena njovu?' Ine ndinati ine sindikanakhala, ndipo ndisanati ndiganize za nyama yomwe ndingakhale ndiri - funso lachidwi lofunsa mafunso, ine ndikudziwa-iye adasokoneza, 'Kotero ngati ine ndinkalowa mu chipinda chanu chodyera musanadye chakudya, kodi mungakhale ndi njira yanji?
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Kenanso sindinanene, ndikudandaula ngakhale kuti ndili ndi zikhulupiliro zandale ndipo ndakhala ndikudzipereka kwambiri kwa anthu ena. Anapitiliza kundipanikizira, ndipo ndinayesetsa kuti ndisalowerere ndale koma kenako anayamba kufotokoza za chisankho, ndipo pamapeto pake adasanduka nkhondo yandale. Ndinayamba kuthawa ndikudziwika kuti sindinapezeke ngongole.
Musayende Pansi Pakhomo Lalikumbutso: Ndi dziko laling'ono lomwe iwo akunena, ndipo panthawi yofunsira ntchito posachedwa, wofunsana nane ndi ine tinaganiza kuti tinapita ku koleji yomweyi, mumzinda wawung'ono ku East Coast. Mwamuna wanga anabadwira mumzinda umenewo ndipo ankakhala kumeneko moyo wonse, komwe tinakumana.
Ngakhale wofunsa mafunso anali pafupi zaka zinayi kuposa ine, tidakudziwabe anthu ambiri. Pamene tinayambika kale ndinayamba kuzindikira koopsa - anali mlongo wa mkazi wanga mwamuna wanga atakwatira ali wamng'ono, kenako anasudzulana, kuti achoke ndi ine pamene ndapeza ntchito ku Los Angeles. Zinali zosokoneza kwambiri ndipo sankayika awiri ndi awiri mpaka titayamba kukambirana zapitazo, popeza sindinasinthe dzina langa lomaliza pamene tinakwatirana chifukwa cha ntchito yanga.
Atangoganiza za kugwirizana, ndimatha kumuuza kuti akuyesera kukhalabe wachifundo koma sizinagwire ntchito. Iye anachotsa kuyankhulana ndipo sindinamvepo kuchokera kwa kampaniyo kachiwiri.
Nthawi Yocheza Nawo ku Starbucks: Ndinangobwerera kumene kuphuka kwa kasupe - Ndinamaliza semester imodzi kumayambiriro ndipo ndinakhala pafupi ndi miyezi iwiri ku Ibiza, Spain - ndipo ndinakonza zokambirana kwa mphindi zochepa kuti ndikhale ndi chiyanjano cha chilimwe patatsala masiku awiri kuti ndikafike kumbuyo ku States.
Ndinalakwitsa kukonzekera kuyankhulana ku Starbucks ku koleji yanga, ndikukhala ndi mwayi wambiri - wina, wofunsana nane anali mnyamata yemwe amawoneka ngati akanakhala 'bro' m'malo mzanga; awiri, inali nthawi yomaliza kotero kuti aliyense anali mu sitolo ya khofi kuphunzira ndi kufunafuna chisokonezo. Kuyankhulana kunasokonezedwa nthawi zambiri ndi anzanga akuyandikira kwa ine, akundifunsa ine ndikafika kunyumba ku America, ndikukambirana pa zithunzi zomwe ndinazilemba pa Facebook.
Nditatha kusokoneza katatu, ndinauza mnzanga kuti ndikufunsana ndikudziwitsa ena kuti ndikadzapeza. Pomwepo chiwonongekocho chinachitika. Sindinapeze ntchitoyi.
Ndi 5 O'Clock Pakati penipeni: Ndinkakhala ndi mafunso ofunika kwambiri pa Lachisanu m'mawa, koma ndinkakonzekera nthawi zonse, ndikuyankhulana bwino pafoni nthawi yoyamba, ndipo ndinalibe chidaliro cha momwe kuyankhulana kungabwerere.
Popeza ndinayenera kudumphira pa sitimayo ndikufulumizitsa kuntchito yanga yochepa mutatha kuyankhulana, ndinaganiza zotsalira ndi sitolo yoyimitsa mowa musanayambe kukambirana ndikukonzekera zomwe ndikuganiza kuti ndizo zikondwerero. Ndinagula botolo la vodka pa sitolo ya ngodya, ndipo ndinayamba kuyenda ku nyumba ya ofesi. Mitsempha yanga inali kukula ndikuganiza kuti sizingapweteke ngati nditawombera kamodzi. Kotero, ine ndinatenga nkhwangwa, kenako ndinayifuula botolo mu chikwama changa.
Tikagwedeza manja munthu wofunsayo anayamba kuyimba mofuula ndikufunsa ngati ndamwa. Inde, ndinayankha kuti ayi, koma ndikudzimva ndekha kuti kununkhira kwa Vodka kunali kotani. Ndinawafotokozera mwamsanga kuti ndatenga botolo la Vodka kwa bwenzi ndikunyamula mu chikwama changa - ngati kuti izi zakhala bwino. Sindinayambe kubwerera.
Kufunika kwa Malo Osungira Bulu: Ndangotenga galu yemwe ali ndi nkhawa yolekana kwambiri pamene atsala yekha m'nyumba. Ndinafunsidwa kuntchito madzulo ndipo ngakhale ndikufunsa pozungulira, sindinapeze wina woti amusamalire kwa maola awiri ndikuganiza kuti ndipita. Ndinam'tenga ndikumusiya m'galimoto, ndikukonzekera kuti bwenzi langa lipeze galimotoyo ndi chinsinsi chake ndikupita naye ku paki mpaka nditafunsidwa.
Kunali kutentha tsiku koma ine ndikudziwa kuti iyo ikanakhala yayikulu ya maminiti khumi kapena fifitini iye akanakhala ali mu galimoto yekha; kuphatikizapo, ndinasiya mawindo onse osatsegulidwa. Chabwino, munthu wina wochokera ku kampaniyo akubwera kuchokera ku chakudya chamasana ndipo adawona galu wanga m'galimoto. Anathamangira ku ofesi, yomwe ili yochepa kwambiri, ndipo anayamba kuyamba kunena kuti munthu woopsya amusiya galu wawo m'galimoto pa nyengo ngati izi, komanso momwe amachitira apolisi.
Ndinamva kuti Ruckus anali kulenga kuchokera ku ofesi yomwe ndinali kukhalamo ndipo sindikufuna kuti apolisi adandiyitane, choncho ndinayenera kusokoneza zokambiranazo ndi kufotokozera mkhalidwewo, ngakhale kuti sanasamalire zambiri zafotokozedwa. Kutembenuza kuti mkazi ameneyo akadakhala mmodzi wa oyang'anira ngati ine ndalandira ngongole, koma osayenera kunena, ine sindinatero.
Ndinasiya ntchito ku fomu ya pulasitiki: Ine ndi mnzanga amene timakhala naye ndi chizoloŵezi choipa kwambiri cholola kuti mbale zathu zikhale mulu, mpaka sitinakhale ndi mbale zabwino ndi zida zathu nthawi zonse zonyansa pansi pa madzi. Pofuna kuchita izi ndinayambitsa chizoloŵezi choipa kwambiri: kuba, kapena monga ndimakonda kunena, 'kubwereka,' zida za pulasitiki kumalo monga Starbucks, Subway, Chipotle ... mumatenga chithunzichi.
Kuyankhulana kwanga kunali muofesi ya ofesi yantchito mu dera la bizinesi langa la mzinda, kutanthauza kuti pali malo odyera odyera mwamsanga komwe antchito amadya chakudya ndi kumwa khofi. Ndinafika molawirira kwambiri kuti ndifunse mafunso ndipo ndinaganiza kuti ndingagwiritse ntchito mwayiwu ndikutenga ziwiya zina. Panthawi yomwe ndimapita kukafunsa mafunso, ndinkatenga zida zochepa kuchokera kumalo asanu osiyana-kutanthauza kuti mwina ndinali ndi mafoloko 50, 70 ndi makapu m'thumba langa.
Ndinakhala pansi kuti ndikufunsane ndipo panthawi ina ndinakwera pa thumba langa - ndi ziwiya zonse zomwe zinatayidwa pansi. Sindinadziwe choti ndikanene, choncho ndinayamba kugwedeza, ndipo zonse zomwe ndimakhoza kuganiza zinali, 'O, mnzanga wondipempha kuti andipatse izi.' Sindinapeze ntchitoyi.
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