Chifukwa Cholimbikitsira Anthu Sichigwira Ntchito ... Ndipo Ndi Chiyani
Mu bukhu lake, Chifukwa Cholimbikitsira Anthu Sichigwira Ntchito ... Ndipo Kodi , Susan Fowler akukambirana bwanji kuti ndi zopweteka kwa olemba ntchito kuyesa kulimbikitsa antchito. Amagwiritsa ntchito zokhudzana ndi maganizo kuti ayese chitsanzo choyesedwa chomwe chingathandize atsogoleli kutsogolera anthu awo ku zolimbikitsa zomwe sizingowonjezera zokolola komanso zokambirana koma zimapereka cholinga chachikulu.
Susan ali ndi zaka 30 monga wofufuza, wothandizira, ndi mphunzitsi m'mayiko oposa 30 padziko lonse lapansi mu gawo la utsogoleri. Monga katswiri pa ntchito yowunikira yekha, ndiye mtsogoleri woyendetsa ntchito ya Ken Blanchard Company's Optimal Motivation line, komanso Utsogoleri Waumoyo Wawo, Utsogoleri Wawo Wapamwamba ndi Utsogoleri Wodzipereka.
M'ndandanda iyi, Susan akupereka mayankho a mafunso angapo pokhuza ogwira ntchito, makamaka omwe ali mulamulo.
1. N'chifukwa chiyani kulimbikitsa anthu osagwira ntchito? Kodi mtsogoleri wamkulu akusewera ndi chiyani?
Simungathe kulimbikitsa anthu chifukwa ali ndi cholinga - mwina osati momwe mumafunira kuti akhale, kapena ayi mwa njira yabwino. Chilimbikitso si kuchuluka kwa chinthu chimene anthu ali nacho kapena alibe. Anthu nthawi zonse amalimbikitsidwa, kotero ndi CHIYENJEZO cha zolinga zawo zomwe ziri zofunika. M'malo moika maganizo pa "anthu olimbikitsa", tiyenera kuika maganizo athu pa kuwathandiza kusintha khalidwe lawo - ndipo motero, zochitika zawo.
Zoonadi, kukhudzidwa ndizochitikira mkati, kotero ndi pamene kusintha kusayenera kuchitika; osati kudzera mwa njira zakunja monga zolimbikitsa, mphotho zenizeni, kapena mphotho zosaoneka ngati mphamvu kapena udindo (kaloti) kapena kukakamizidwa, kuzunzidwa, kuopseza, kudziimba mlandu, manyazi, kapena kudzimvera chisoni.
2. Monga mtsogoleri, kodi mukusowa kutsogolera anthu mosiyana malinga ndi ntchito zosiyanasiyana ndi mibadwo?
Monga mtsogoleri, nthawi zonse muyenera kumvetsetsa zosowa za munthu aliyense monga cholinga cha munthu pa chitukuko kapena ntchito (monga mtsogoleri wa malo, simumapatsa wina amene wakhala akuchita ntchito kwa zaka zisanu mofanana ndi kuthandizira ngati wina watsopano ku ntchitoyo)
Muyeneranso kudziwa za Chotsitsimutsa Cholinga cha Munthu (MO) pa cholinga kudzera mu Kukambirana Kwachikoka Kwambiri, munthu wogulitsira kugonjetsa ulendo kapena # 1 (kunja kwa MO) sangathe kusamalira mphamvu, mphamvu, kapena kukhala wokhutira ngati munthu wogulitsa amene amagulitsa malingana ndi zikhulupiliro zawo ndi kuthetsa kuthetsa vuto, lingaliro la cholinga chifukwa cha chikhulupiliro cha zabwino zomwe mumapanga kapena ntchito yanu zimapereka, kapena chifukwa amakonda kukonda. Izi ndi zifukwa zosiyana zogulitsa ndi mtsogoleri wa savvy angathandize aliyense wogulitsa kuganizira MO wawo ndipo mwina amasintha kapena akhalebe ndi maganizo abwino kwambiri.
Pomalizira, muyenera kukhala ndi "zikhalidwe" zomwe zingapangidwe ndi zibadwidwe zomwe zingakhale zifukwa zomwe munthu akuchitira zomwe akuchita ndikuthandiza munthuyo - mosasamala kanthu za mbadwo - agwiritse ntchito ku "makhalidwe abwino" omwe amasankhidwa, amtengo wapatali , okondedwa, ndikuchita pa nthawi. Gulu lililonse lazinthu lakhala likukonzekera mfundo; Munthu aliyense ali ndi chisankho chokhala ndi makhalidwe osadziŵika ndi osaganiziridwa, kapena kukhala ndi malingaliro awo enieni powayerekezera ndi njira zina ndikupanga kusankha. Izi ndizofunikira chifukwa pamene munthu angathe kugwirizanitsa ntchito yawo ndi chikhalidwe chokhazikika, akhoza kukhala ndi MO.
3. Ndi njira ziti zomwe anthu ayenera kuzigwiritsa ntchito kuthandizira ogwira ntchito kapena okhaokha?
Ndikufuna kuganiza kuti bukhu langa lonse ndi gwero la njira zomwe zingathandize atsogoleri komanso omwe akutsogolera. Zimatengera momwe mumatanthawuzira kupambana. Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi mphamvu zowonjezera, mphamvu, ndi umoyo wabwino zomwe zimabweretsa thanzi labwino, zakuthupi, zowonjezera komanso zowonjezereka, mwachitsanzo, ndiye kuti mungafune kuphunzira luso labwino: pezani MO wanu wamakono, kusintha kwa MO, ndipo ganizirani za MO wanu kuti muone kusiyana kwa moyo wanu komwe kukupangitsani kuti mukhale nawo.
Monga mtsogoleri, mukufuna kupanga malo ogwira ntchito kwambiri kuti anthu akhale ndi MO opambana kwambiri - kumene zosowa zawo zamaganizo zokhudzana ndi umoyo wawo, zogwirizana, ndi luso zikukhutira.
4. Attorneys ndi malo ovomerezeka ndi nyama yokha. Kodi ndizochita ziti zabwino kapena njira zothandizira oweruza ndi omwe ali kumunda?
Kuchokera kwondichitikira kwanga, malo ovomerezeka amakhazikitsidwa pachithupi cha kunja: ndi maola angati omwe mungakhoze kulipira, mungapeze bwanji ofesi ya ngodya, mungapange bwanji bwenzi lanu? Chimapanganso oyimira (makamaka anthu awo othandizira) ndi malamulo a MO - mantha olephera, okhumudwitsa, kapena osakwaniritsa zomwe akuyembekezera. Inu simungakhoze "kulimbikitsa" mabwalo amilandu: iwo ali kale othandizira. Funso ndilo chifukwa chake akuchita chilamulo? Ngati pali zifukwa zomveka (zopindulitsa kapena zosaoneka bwino, zokondweretsa ena, osakhumudwitsa mamembala omwe ali ndi chiyembekezo chachikulu, mphamvu, ndi zina zotero), samangopatula ntchito zawo zokha, koma amavomereza kuti iwo akuyimira- Kuchita zinthu zochepa, kupanga zosankha zosayenera (makamaka pankhani ya kulipira!), kuwathandiza anthu ovutika, kuvutika maganizo, ndi thanzi labwino, ndi zina zotero.
Loyera aliyense ayenera kudzifunsa yekha: Chifukwa chiyani ndikuchita zomwe ndikuchita?
Kawirikawiri amatha kugwirizana ndi kasitomala, vuto, kapena ntchito kuti ikhale ndi mfundo zabwino, zolinga zabwino, kapena chimwemwe chomwe chimachokera pakupereka ku chinachake chachikulu kuposa cha iwo okha kapena pa moyo wawo wonse. "bwino." Makamaka pa nthawi.
Zolinga zachikhalidwe zikuwoneka kuti zagwira ntchito kale, koma kwenikweni? Mwinamwake munda ukuyenera kuyang'ananso zomwe iwo akutanthauza mwa "ntchito." Kodi munganene kuti njira zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pokakamiza anthu zakhala ndi moyo wabwino? Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti cholinga chawo chachangu ndi malipiro omwe amapereka kwa nthawi yaitali.
5. N'chifukwa chiyani mwalemba bukuli? Kodi mukuyembekeza kusintha ndi bukhu lanu?
Ndinalemba bukhuli kuti ndigawane sayansi yatsopano yomwe imaganizira za khalidwe la munthu m'malo molimbikitsana. Ndikuyembekeza kukhala chothandizira kuzindikira za anthu ndikupereka chikhalidwe ndi njira zowonetsera kuti zisinthe kuchoka pa zochitika zosangalatsa zomwe zimakhudza nthawi iliyonse, iliyonse yomwe amasankha - ndi luso lothandiza ena kuchita chimodzimodzi. Ndikuganiza kuti anthu akulakalaka chinachake kuntchito ndipo chifukwa sankamvetsetsa chikhalidwe chenichenicho cha anthu, otchedwa ndalama, mphamvu, ndi udindo. Ndikuganiza kuti atsogoleri akusowa zotsatira ndipo chifukwa sanamvetsetse kuti amaika zatsopano zokhutiritsa kugwira ntchito, zoyendetsa galimoto ndi kupsinjika, kuzunza, ndi kudzimva. Pali njira yabwino, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti buku langa silikuunikira anthu njira zina, koma amawaphunzitsa njira yatsopano yopita kuntchito tsiku ndi tsiku.